Why is she so passive agressive?

Anonymous
My cousin is being really annoying. Is she jealous? It’s soo confusing?

Today she sent me a tiktok video talking about one-sided love lol. Here’s the background:

The guy that I’ve been talking to is very handsome guy. It was weird how she used to talk about thinking about saying hi to him and introducing herself to him in public despite not knowing him. All she knows about him is what I’ve told him. She was like "I want to introduce myself to him as your cousin when I see him". At that point me and him were just chatting and didn't even exchange numbers. I didn’t understand her need to introduce herself to him.

Me and him have chatted for a while now. In the beginning I was the one texting him first usually and now it’s 50/50. We have exchanged numbers and he has asked me out for coffee.

she always says to me ”don’t text him first, let him reach out to you first”. Even though he was the last one to text me first. She always wants to know if we’re still talking and keeping in contact. She was very suprised when I said that he asked me out for coffee and wanted to know how the conversation went when he asked me out for coffee. The day before that she was talking about how ” he has friendzoned me ”
She is always skeptical that he could like me. Before I even sent him the first message she was " don't send him anything, let him text you first".

when I’ve told her how he texted me first or sent me something she’s like ” haha okey”
Why is she so passive agressive?
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