How to feel confident after called ugly?

[Anonymous]

One mid Chinese guy said I’m 6/10 but rated him as 9/10 even if he’s not. And other dude with social anxiety that knew I consider myself unattractive said that I’m “okay” after I said he looks god😭 and I’m always being rejected if I approach someone and nobody approach me. How should mid girls with social anxiety act and do? And feel confident? I can’t say I approach super attractive people but still being rejected by mid or normal and I never tried to approach someone 10/10.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow girl, I'm sorry people have said such rude things to hurt your confidence. Here are some thoughts:

- First, don't believe everything some rando says. Their "ratings" mean nothing! Most guys just try tearing women down.

- You don't need a man's stamp of approval to feel good about yourself! Focus on what YOU like about your looks and personality.

- Social anxiety makes meeting people tough, but stay determined. Keep putting yourself out there - join clubs, talk to classmates, etc.

- Also, rejection isn't personal. There are so many reasons people don't click beyond looks alone. Don't internalize it.

- Surround yourself with gals who build you up. Confidence comes from within, not others. Say nice things to yourself in the mirror each day!

- Also do little things that make YOU feel cute, like cute undies, a hair flip, strut your stuff! Internalize how hot you are, sis.

You've got so much to offer the world beyond what some jerks think. Keep shining bright! The right people will see your light, I promise. Chin up - you've got this.

[LiamJHayden]

The 10 scale is silly.

1. There are no 10/10's. 10/10 would be perfect, and that does not exist on this planet.
2. Most people are average. 6/10 would by definition be above average.
3. Being a decent person will automatically make one more attractive. I'd rather be with a below average looking sweetheart than a drop-dead gorgeous drama queen.

[Sunnysunny123]

The ratings have no meaning, one's 10/10 is someone elses 4/10 and vice versa, it is all relative and based on preferences, don't take it personal some people live in social media.

I recently saw a video where someone commented on a girls post about her "ugly" nose and that no way she could be a model.
Which she responded with being a actual model is about being unique and being a insta model is about being the same as everyone else.

Focus on yourself and even when you don't feel like it, fake it sometimes it helps.

[Ms_Facesitter]

There are almost 8 billion people in the world. One called you ugly. So what? Just easy as that. There are people who will not be physically attracted to us. I've been rejected for my height before. Whatever. There are many more people out there who don't find my height a deal breaker. "one Chinese man, who rates himself a 9 mind you, rated me low" big deal. Don't take people seriously who rate themselves high.

[bmn1201]

I think personality comes to the fore now, instead of external beauty. so 10/10 someone will not reject you. But even if he rejects it, he rejects it politely. So if you are a person of character, do not hesitate

[Anonymous]

By understanding that guys take about 10 times the rejection that a woman does. So whatever you're enduring right now. Understand that guy has probably endured AT LEAST that.

[Asker]

Why men constantly complain about rejection and justify everything with it? I have rejected my whole life and never dated. If guys being rejected every time why mid Chinese guy rated me 6/10 and rejected me? If u talk about sex, yes probably i wouldn’t be rejected. But it’s not my fault that men only care about sex and that’s only thing they want. And it’s much easier for men to find girlfriend