Why would a girl secretly follow you on an alt account?

[romain1985]

I met this girl. She was cute and I felt there was an attraction, but as the attraction got stronger, I pulled away from, engaging less with her. She seems to have gotten upset and me ignoring her subtle flirty cute and cut me off completely.

I was going to just let her go, but upon reflection, I came to conclusion I might have pulled away too hard, so I told her I liked her. I told her that I always liked her presence and that she had beautiful eyes, even though I began avoiding them. I promised her a sun and moon for them, amongst other things.

After a week of not knowing anything from her, I caught her looking at my tiktok. I looked at her profile and hearted a picture, telling she was beautiful. She deleted my comment. She continued to ignore me, so I unfollowed her. A week later I got a notification she posted, so I got curious and checked her profile out again. I accidentally hit the follow button. I decided to just leave it.

A few days later, a strange account began following me. It had the picture of bunny with sunglasses. I checked out the account, and my gut instinct said it was her based on a comment one of her brother's had with someone on the account. The account also followed her and her brother back. I followed the account back, becoming friends.

The next day after I followed the strange account, she followed me back on her main account, and I know her as a friend twice.

Why was she trying to hide her presence?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like she's invested

[Anonymous]

Why do guys pull away

[romain1985]

Guys have different reasons, from being complete jerks who only play with women to deeply rooted insecurities.

Then there are men like a friend of mine. He just wants to sleep with everything. He talks to like 10 different girls, sleeps with those he can and moves on. As long as he has accessibility to women to sleep with, he'll continue doing it. He doesn't care for the women in his life. They are just trophies and pleasure.

Me, personally? A few years ago I dated a girl I didn't know had cocaine, and heroin addiction. I knew she was heavy drinker. I tried being patient with her when I found out about the rest.

She came in hot and heavy. Two dates in we had sex. She wanted to move in together, get married. Like a week later, she began avoiding me. I should have walked away, but I didn't understand the abrupt change. I kept seeking her out until I finally got ahold of her.

She invited me to her place. When I got there, her gay friend was there. I started drinking with them and got a little drunk. That's when she started attacking me, telling she didn't want to be with anymore because I didn't do anything special for her in the bedroom. She said I made he cum, but that that was it. Her gay friend then started hitting me, asking me I was interested in trying something else. The whole experience hurt.

Even though she wrote me back like 10 years later, telling how she regretted her behavior, she still left a scar that took me a long, long time to heal.

Before the girl I am currently pursuing, I absolutely fell for this other girl, but I self-sabotaged the connection because of my insecurities. I've finally put myself together, but a little fear still lingers.

I ask myself, if things get sexual, can I fulfill her needs and begin to pull away while I try to answer the question.

I'm pretty sure there are other reason as well.

[Iron_Man]

Spy and is testing you

[Tomisworthless]

she's a stalker