What are some things cause you to admire a man? What makes you lose admiration for him?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Weakness I guess. Crying. Spinelessness. Submissive.

I was dating a guy for a year and he seemed perfect. But my ex started being flirty with me and my boyfriend tried to say something but was stuttering. My ex started bullying him in front of me and slapped him like a bitch, punched him and kicked him on the ground. I was livid and told my ex to piss. I was comforting my crying boyfriend on the ground, he'd peed himself and he just looked so pathetic. My ex pulled up I'm his BMW and shouted that I should get my fat ass in the car now so he could tear it up. I was super angry about this but super turned on, I apologised to my boyfriend and left with my ex. I think something must have broken in my then boyfriend because even though I'd gone off with another guy he blamed himself and forgave me. We dated for another 6 months and honestly I couldn't enjoy sex with him anymore, I just lay there until he was done.

[Asker]

Thank you for sharing this. That's quite a story. Hearing the abnormal experiences like this help me to better understand the subconscious motivations of women. It sounds like your boyfriend at the time didn't even try to stand up for himself or you. If he would have at least tried to fight back (but still lost the fight), do you think you would have still left with your ex like you did?

Have you experienced men crying in other circumstances (like a family death or something?) If so, what does it make you feel in the moment?

[Asker]

I was at a party once with my (now ex) girlfriend and some dude grabbed her ass when she was walking past him. The dude knew we were together, so it was like obvious disrespect. i didn't see it when it happened, I was outside talking with some other people, one of whom called it to my attention later. Then I got into an argument with her for not standing up for herself and not telling me when it happened. I was on unsupervised probation at the time and getting into a fight seemed like a terrible idea. I decided that we would just both leave. Looking back I wish i would have at least confronted him verbally. I always wondered if she looked at me as weaker because of that incident.

[Anonymous]

Lack of genuineness. One man women are respected. Women can smell it when he’s not one

[Asker]

Do you mean a one-woman man?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. Some guys are not loyal. They pretend so. Women can sense them

[Anonymous]

People lose respect for liars, thieves, and cheaters.

[Anonymous]

When a man is broke and poor I lose admiration for him. When he has money and brings in money to me then I admire him.

[Asker]

Sounds like you would be easy to manipulate.