Men, what sort of man do you ENVY the most?

[Anonymous]

The lothario who has multiple women at his feet

The happily married man who has a family and one beautiful wife who loves and worships him

The rich high value man married to his money and his career but he has no time for love

Other

[Billlewis]

The guys who I'm most jealous of are the ones who are dating and fucking the women I serve as a maid, etc -- and they do this, literally, right in front of me, and there's nothing I can do about it, except masturbate.

[pethouse]

What?

[Billlewis]

@pethouse I'm insanely jealous of guys who are able to seduce the most beautiful women imaginable, while all I can do is masturbate, and think about how incredibly pleasurable it must be for them.

[Singing_Hollow]

WTF, and you got Bots Choice... no hope with this one

[Peter_Penetrator]

Physically I am 51. I am childless. I am single with no girlfriend. I have been married twice for all the wrong reasons. I am not where I should be in life at my age. I have not lived through all the great experiences that life offers. I am not educated as l should be. Mentally I am in my late 20’s.


Up until about 4 years ago I have lived with the symptoms of bipolar disorder. It stole 30 years of my life and all I could have been.


Over the last 30 years I chased after this doctor and that doctor. I have been on this med and that med.


But now l am the happiest l have ever been.


Four years ago I found the right doctor and two meds to go along with a third. That third med I have taken for over 10 years and it alone made a big difference. But I still wasn’t where l wanted to be.


I have a lot more going for me now more than ever.


I got through those 30 years without drug or alcohol abuse. I shouldn’t have. Two of my grandparents were raging alcoholics.


I am proud of what I endured. It has made me into who I have become over these last 4 years. I take responsibility for my mental health. I keep this shit in check. I own it.


So yes, I ENVY the men of this world with a higher education and a long, successful, marriage with successful children and grandchildren.


That life was not meant for me.


But hey, at least my glass is half full and l don’t run around seeing it half empty and/or work really hard at dragging those around me, down with me. I try to mentor, I try to make people laugh and I try to point out the positive things in life.


Just because things don’t work out a certain way for some people isn’t a reason to act angry towards others. If you work hard at moving past your bad luck. Your luck will change.


This reply was more than what the OP asked but oh well.

[MementoMori777]

The abusive and disgraceful manipulative and pathetic men, the ones that make men look bad basically

[Asker]

you're jealous of them?

[MementoMori777]

No why would I be jealous of them 😂

[Asker]

The question was who would you ENVY out of all 3 options
So which one would you want to be

[MementoMori777]

Oh I thought envy meant hate 😂

[Asker]

lol envy= jealousy
mistakes happen don't worry about it

[Asker]

okay so which of the 3 would you rather have if you were to pick a lifestyle

[MementoMori777]

The middle one I guess

[Asker]

fair enough

[Anonymous]

I'm a woman but I envy men like my dad. Wise, hard working, reliable, trustworthy, funny, smart, gentle, he's incredible. He wasn't always like that but he's only grown with time. I'm lucky to have a good fiance who is striving to be like that. I want to be like that too. I think men who don't have a wife and kids but are like that are also worthy of envy even though they'd hate that you'd feel that to them through their good will.

[Staximus]

I don't know, I was going to say the happily married man, but a few of my friends say they envy me. I don't have any debt, no wife or kids. I'm not married to my job or career, either. I could tell my boss to go piss up a flagpole right now and it wouldn't really matter. I would have to find a new job in a couple months but whatever. I'm a fat free bird. Or a free fat bird.

[Lionman95]

Clearly the second one since I can´t see myself with multiple women. Plus he´s the only guy that´s said to be happy.

[Rennex]

Makes good sense!🫡👌There's just some happiness that the dude who sleeps with multiple women doesn't experience when he lays his head to sleep at night.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I don't really have insecurities to the point I feel the need to compare myself to others actually I don't think most guys don't care how other men operate their lives unlike women who feel like they need to compete with other girls for no reason.

[AnusNdaPainus]

A dead man

[Asker]

Damn, I hope life gets better for you.

[AnusNdaPainus]

That’ll happen when stupid people stop making stupid people

I’m not the problem 😂

[Asker]

Oh no
Well maybe take some accountability and things will start to look up for you

[jahaims]

Envy is a waste of an emotion and gets you nowhere. Water your lawn instead of admiring the neighbors lawn.

[Asker]

okay so to rephrase the question which lifestyle would you rather have out of the three?

[AviatorTom]

I envy the "magnet man". No matter what he does, women are attracted to him.

[DarkWinterNights]

I don’t want a wife that worships me, I just want a loyal, loving partner.

[MikeInHawaii]

I admire the happily married. There are probably no more than two or three women I’ve ever known who had me wondering “What if?”

[ChiTown33]

I wouldn't say I "envy" any guy. But I do RESPECT innovators.

[pethouse]

I will say I am jealous of the guys who are 6ft and taller

[Asker]

Why?

[pethouse]

Well I’ve read lots of studies and stuff about height and statistics say that people who are usually above 6 feel are more successful and they even making more money then their shorter coworkers who have started at the same job. 6ft men and taller are only 15% to 20% percent of the male population yet 60% of ceos are over 6ft. Plus being 6ft and taller is the majority of girls preferences. There’s even more studies on that. And honestly most guys I know who are over 6ft have no problem getting girls. The only one that will probably struggle is my half brother who is a psycho but I have seen him get lots of female attention. But most of them don’t know it yet. From what I’ve seen in personal experiences, when it comes to tall men their height comes first and all their terrible flaws come way after in women eyes.

[Asker]

Hey, Hugh Hefner was 5'9 and he was surrounded by women until the day he died.
Height is not everything. Charisma and status is.

Prince was 5'2 for God's sake. He was a pu**y magnet.

[pethouse]

Yeah not to be a Debbie downer but Hefner was rich asf and Prince was an amazinggg singer

[Asker]

yes thats exactly my point. height is not the most important thing you can have. status and charm is.

[pethouse]

That’s true but status can be taken away from you real quick. Especially now days

[Asker]

Not if you work to keep it.
not everything comes free

[pethouse]

Sure i guess but people that have those kinda of quotas didn't just work for it. They got lucky as well. I do Thankyou for your words tho.

[Grovermint]

Middle one, with the exception of worships. Just sounds too grandiose.

[KrakenAttackin]

Every man wants #2, but that is almost unobtainable.

[Anonymous]

2nd one, except for the "worship" part

[gothbxtch]

not a man, but the second one sounds the happiest, except having a wife who “worships” you sounds like an unhealthy balance of power in a relationship

[GodsPinkyToe]

Why? It works fine for me and my woman. Everybody's happiness is different.

[Asker]

I didn't literally mean "worshipping him" It was hyperbole to show how much the wife loves him.

[gothbxtch]

as long as he worships her in return. also i’m sorry i’m neurodivergent and have trouble sometimes with taking expressions too literally!,

[BarryLiverstone]

Successful retired grandpa

[exitseven]

Yes, I look forward to teaching grandkids how to fish,

[Anonymous]

All the options kinda suck. Wow. Life sucks when women suck

[Asker]

If your a woman hating chauvinist, then option 3 is the choice for you.

[Opinion Owner]

How am I a woman hater just because feminists are ass

[Asker]

If I said MEN SUCK, would you not assume I hate men?

[Opinion Owner]

Cus men are feminists

[Jamie05rhs]

My married friends; duh.

[Sharkstealth]

Why would I envy men?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

A better version of myself

[SnowedIn]

I envy no man.

[Blacksnake285]

Wealthy ones because I’m not wealthy

[LiamJHayden]

None.

[Kingofkings1992]

None.