Was I dating a psychopath? Help me identify?

[Anonymous]

Inhighschol I had a crush on her. Would follow her or go near her class to meet. She would often ignore me. I couldn't get hold of her as she had no friends and all her friends were from different parts of the city. Usually easy going people. Her friends in my school was a matter of convenience and thus except a max of 10 people, nobody knows her. She has no social media presence and friends of 10 years don't know her house. Mostly stuck to her studies and left.

She also fabricated a fake rich boyfriend story to avoid me filling the stories with vivid imagination. I was very heart broken as no-one till made me chase that much.

So few years back she came back. I acted like I never knew her often ignoring. She thought I had amnesia and tried her best by befriending my friends on social media to get a better hold of me. She tried to get close but not like following me to home or so. Just a casual obsession. I kept pressuring her for sex and nudes. She refused. Blocked and unblocked her for the same. I ask her out and made her stood up multiple times. Gave ultimatums. I couldn't see me in a relation but couldn't afford to see her with anyone.

Once she asked me for a threesome and I was mad at her for hooking up. So I lied I have a girlfriend and she walked away. Then I kept in touch and ghost her but she stopped responding.

Now, after 3 years, we somehow stumble upon each other as she works with me. Also by accident we meet each other a lot at mall or movies, all different places, but she barely look at me, carries onn with what she is doing and walks away. Even at work, I see her interacting with all but me. I texted her but she doesn't reply. We were stuck in elevator and she act like I don't exist.

I do feel uneasy when I see her talking to guys let alone flirt.

Is she a psychopath?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, this whole situation sounds seriously intense and confusing. A few things stand out to me:

- Her avoiding you so strongly for so long and having almost no online presence is weird. Not normal behavior.

- Fabricating a fake boyfriend is majorly strange and kind of disturbing. Why lie like that? Red flag.

- Her suddenly trying super hard to get close to you after years of ignoring is manipulative and odd. Doesn't add up.

- Her blocking/unblocking you and refusing intimacy but also not fully cutting you off keeps you on the hook in an unhealthy way. Bad news.

- The way she now completely ignores you like you don't exist, even at work, after your history is just bizarre. Very cold.

I can't say for sure if she's a full psychopath, but her behaviors show some definitely manipulative, attention-seeking and uncaring tendencies that are not rooted in anything good or normal, you feel me?

I'd say distance yourself from her as much as possible, bro. She's toxic and messing with your head for sure. You can do better than wasting mental energy on her games, know what I mean? Focus on yourself and real ones.

Stay alert but don't stress her moves either. Some people just ain't right. You got this!

[Nikki1989]

And you have the nerve to call her a psycho?

You better re-read what you have posted here.

[Agape93]

Um bruh, she ain't the psycho. You are.