Can someone explain how it happens?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I really struggle with women I keep myself clean shaven with a put together appearance and I notice that women seem to like more overweight guys with neck beards. I guess I simply don’t understand it’s pounded into you to be the best version of yourself and you will attract a women and when I have my hair short and I’m clean shaven I feel the best version but it’s not enough

[Anonymous]

You wouldn't buy it if we told you. Because it follows no logical pattern. The best thing a guy can do for himself is just be fun loving and not worry about attracting women because you can try all day and be completely ignored, and you can not give a 💩 and have them flock to you like moths around a flame.

One thing you have to accept right now about women is most do not make very good decisions regarding men. You're making the m8stake of trying to apply logic to the situation. Women do not think logically. They think emotionally everything is geared towards satisfying there emotions (if that's possible. Some women have the attention span of a gnat). Stop trying to be of substance. Stop trying to be of what is good for her and be a flighty, ball of energy.

The Chicago Bulls in their heyday were like Beatles of basketball. They would have throngs of women. But the women weren't there for the best basketball player of all time, Michael Jordan. They were there for Dennis Rodman. Now why do you think that is?😂 Dennis was the sideshow. But this is the way Women think.

[chilldude33]

Anon is right. It's all about the vibe that you represent as a person. Powerful, influential, entertaining, caring and protective is ideal. Your grooming habits have little to do with it.

If you reverse the genders, you are basically asking "I put a lot of effort into my appearance, yet it's the less good looking girls that have good boyfriends/husbands?"

Your presence is not interesting or relevant. That's why.