Why do women fell for toxic men?

[Anonymous]

Uhmm one of my friends has a thing for toxic man who like smokes, flirts, says abusive words, and basically does nothing for financial support. Why isn’t she seeing this red flag. She's like 22.

[Anonymous]

Well there’s a number of reasons. Sometimes women who are treated like that Torino g up or see other women in their life being treated like that, they tend to end up w men like that. To them that’s normal. On the other hand women like to change men so she may think she could be the one to change him. To her she sees some good in him that others don’t. That if they could just see what she sees they’d see he’s not that bad of a person. Sometimes women are drawn to drama. Some women like being treated like that. They like a man to be in control of them. Maybe they feel they’re not worthy so she feels she deserves it because she thinks she’s always making mistakes so that’s her punishment. I know a girl who’s man picks out everything she wears but she like it’s. She likes him being in charge of pretty much everything. They seem happy. Some women may not know what these red flags are especially if you’re new to dating and relationships.

[lin123_]

sometimes when people have been treated badly for a long time, they might not be aware of what a good relationship should look like. They might not feel worthy of good treatment so they accept whatever.

[alice55]

Usually people in toxic relationship are either naive / sheltered or just grew up in toxic household so for them it's normal

[Pupweb]

She might have a savior complex.