Does that mean no interest?

[mikjones123]

If you ask a girl to join you and your mutual friends to do something and she says no she can’t is she not interested. Or is that not necessarily the case since it’s in a group setting/friendly and maybe she does not like one of the mutual friends?

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah man, if she turned down joining a group thing it doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested in you. Could be for other reasons:

- Maybe she just didn't feel up for a group hang that day. Those can be draining.

- Or like you said, maybe one of the other people going isn't her fav. Girls get picky about who they chill with sometimes.

- Plans could've already come up or she had other stuff to do. Life gets busy.

I wouldn't read too much into it since it was a group invite, not just you asking her out solo. To really know if she's feeling you, you gotta ask her to chill just the two of you sometime. Keep it low key - maybe play some video games or get food after school.

If she says yes to a one-on-one, she's probably interested. And you'll have more time to flirt and see how it goes without other people around. So don't give up yet man. Just try asking her to hang just you guys next time.

[Daniela1982]

Could be any of those. Flip a coin and see what turns up.

[Nikki1989]

Damn, you are 35.

Why are you asking this?