Girls’ how many of you love when your man puts you in your place when you are out of control?

[Finchie40]

For some reason I end up with girls’ that love this shit when I don’t tolerate her shit. I consider myself a respectful guy to people that are respectful to me in return , when I am dating a girl that decides to be disrespectful to me , I am disrespectful to her and make it clear to her that I won’t tolerate her shit and show her the door if it’s that bad. She usually comes back or doesn’t leave at all and apologizes to me for her actions and then we have make up sex. Do you girls’ love when your partner doesn’t take your shit?

[Crimsyjo]

Sounds healthy to me if both partners can communicate when one is acting out and apologise and change their behaviour. Problems arise if a) they don't apologise or accept wrongdoing. B) accept it but don't change. C) do it deliberately cos they like seeing your reaction.

I'm not sure I will "like it" but if i can accept I was out of line I would apologise for sure. And I'd respect a man for giving me a 2nd chance! Tho I do hope I don't do anything "out of line!"

[Finchie40]

Then you are more than likely a submissive girl that values your relationships

[Crimsyjo]

I don't like the word submissive lol although I do give to much and want to nurture my man and make him happy. Which sometimes results in me losing myself. So with age I have learned to assert my individuality and needs through communication and not take bullshit from a man (like double standards) and I will fight back or stand my ground too so I'm not submissive in a weak way. Maybe that's why I don't like that word? Sounds weak. But yes absolutely I would value my relationship and I believe wholeheartedly in communicating and compromise and moving forward together to grow. And admit mistakes. That's something that has come with age and experience.

[RageBabe]

I was going to say fire signs aren't known for being submissive. Lol

[Crimsyjo]

@RageBabe too true!! Tho I'm on cusp to Taurus (earth) so I'm a little more home orientated than most. My home is my castle and all that. And I crave security. But I am impatient and i can be selfish but more from acting rash or not thinking rather than deliberate so with communication I would reflect upon it if called out.
But in a bad relationship... I'll fight if they get aggressive first. Slap my face I'll slap yours type thing.

[RageBabe]

I understand. 💕

[sage2021]

I never get out of control. I'm cool, 😎, calm and collected!!

[Finchie40]

Then you are a good girl that values relationships and you probably love being submissive to your partner

[sage2021]

@Finchie40
Pretty much so!

[Finchie40]

Nothing wrong with that whatsoever 😋

[Arizona8]

Why would you date someone who can't control herself?

[Finchie40]

She controls herself in the beginning of the relationship but after the infatuation period runs it’s course , she starts to become selfish and only thinking of herself , I only experience this with single girls’ but I don’t experience it with married ones or girls’ that are already in a relationship that lie about their relationships , it seems girls’ that are already taken treat their side pieces better based off of my experiences with girls’

[NathanDavis]

that's toxicity... not love

[Finchie40]

How so? Toxicity would be completely ignoring her and not giving a shit whatsoever ,

[NathanDavis]

two people that go bonkers... and come back to each other... no way, lol

[Finchie40]

So you don’t get crazy at times? You constantly agree with everything your partner says? You don’t have arguments? LOL Damn where did I go wrong lol

[NathanDavis]

do I get crazy? no...

do we agree on absolutely everything? no... we disagree sometimes, but we don't go stupid about it

do we have arguments? we've have discussions for the most part, some arguments... but we don't go crazy over it

where did you go wrong? that's a lot of turns to keep track... lol but that was more of a question for yourself, yes

[LostandFound__x]

I find it very attractive lol

[Finchie40]

Then you are a girl I would be with

[LostandFound__x]

Haha

[RageBabe]

I like it a lot.

[Finchie40]

Then you are more than likely a submissive girl , which I love submissive girls’