Why do girls always flirt with me even though I'm straight?

[Anonymous]

This has become a pattern. I end up befriending girls and thinking we're all just friends and getting to know each other. It ends up being that they're actually bisexual and then they admit having feelings for me. It happened in college with one of my closest female friends, at work with one of my coworkers, etc. I do not want to give mixed signals or make them think that I'm into them in that way. I love their company and we are all an emotional support system to each other, but I'm straight and never look at girls in a sexual way. How can I avoid this from happening again? I feel really bad and guilty when they have the courage to admit it to me and I basically have to say that it's not a possibility. What can I do different? Am I giving off mixed signals or encouraging something unknowingly? I seem to attract bisexual females all the time and most of my female friends are bisexual, like probably 80%. Please advise

[Joshydavid25]

Most of them are probably not really bisexual, but just ended up really bonding with another woman to the point where they feel like they wanna be with them romantically, especially since women don't have the highest view of men nowadays.. Who knows maybe you're just really touchy or something like that and attract those types of women.. Maybe it could be that women who are super friendly to other women just so happen to be bisexual I suppose..

[molonski2]

You have Bisexual tendencies and dikes always have a 6th and 7th sense , maybe you need to let go , and simply give in , they can always tell the honest truth , you are not 100% straight.

[Asker]

That's an interesting observation actually. Never thought they might be picking up on something from me or energy I'm giving off. I have had 2 females crushes in my entire life but I don't think that means I have bisexual tendencies, does it? I have never kissed a girl or even really thought about exploring that. I have had all boyfriends and was always pretty boy crazy since I was 12 years old. I dated a lot and was never really single and went from relationship to relationship with me. I like the masculinity they bring and how it's so opposite to my femininity. Like girls are small and guys are built more strong, females have smaller hands whereas guys have bigger hands, etc. And how protective guys are and the height difference

[Bezooz]

What do you mean by females crushes? Like are you sexually attracted to them?

[Asker]

@Bezooz I wouldn't say sexually attracted but that if I was a guy, they would be very much my type! Like they seem to have a lot of sex appeal and something about their energy or aura draws me in. But that is few and far between and very very few females get that feeling out of me

[Bezooz]

I don't understand, like would you sleep with them or not?

[Asker]

@Bezooz No not sleep with them. But if they showed interest back, I would be curious to kiss/makeout with them. But never have before & only had very long term relationships with guys

[Bezooz]

Why would you be okay to kiss/makeout with them but not to sleep with them?

[Bezooz]

It seems like you have sexual attraction to those women, why did you say "I'm straight and ""never"" look at girls in a sexual way?" Making out is very sexual

[molonski2]

I think ( seriously ) my first answer is confirmed , you are genuinely Bi , you seriously need to kiss a girl passionately , and quickly. I've had some experience with this , and that female 6th sense is quite amazing.

[ihateTaylorSwift]

I'd rather get hitted on by a gay girl
than bitch slapped by another female

If that makes sense

It's just always better to be open to em
Than to be a Uptight Homophobic Jerk

[Anonymous]

Sounds like bido85 ran out of blue accounts and made a fake pink one now

[Asker]

I don't know who that is but would like to know the story about bido85 😂 Who is he and What has he been doing that trigger this reaction? Genuinely curious 😊😊

[Anonymous]

Most women have bisexual tendencies, although many never act on them. Bisexual women interested in other women just have to guess about whether a woman they are interested in would be like minded.

[Bezooz]

Why are you surprised that 80% of your female friends are bisexual? Isn't it well-known that most women have bisexual tendencies?