Girl has a boyfriend but flirts with me. Why do people do that?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on her and get nervous, and she picked that up.

She keeps asking me why i get nervous, asks me if i have a crush on someone, and also asks me if i have a girlfriend (i dont).

one day we were talking while standing and she got really close to me and started to touch my tummy, keeping her hand placed there and just looked at me without saying anything.

I asked a few friends of mine about her and they told me that she has a boyfriend but it’s “not serious”. i assume by that they mean they do casual sexual stuff, I don't know.

why do people do this?

[Anonymous]

girlfriend are a myth that's why. People do it because they lack discipline, loyalty, and self control. They are unwilling to sacrifice what feels good in order to honor the ones they are supposedly committed too. Marriage has also become a joke.

[Asker]

I agree with you. There is good stuff out there but it seems like it’s getting less and less common by every year.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, this video was a good example. But that's assuming they are consistent:

https://youtu.be/Z_QUjR4-A3Q

[Anonymous]

So you complaining about this or just asking? If she has a man but she’s doing this w you I’d stay steer clear of her. She sounds like an easy screw.

[Asker]

I’m doing both.

I feel like people take relationships way too casual.

[Opinion Owner]

Well either she’s not getting what she needs from the other dude which is most likely attention or she just likes sleeping around. Either way I’d stay away from her. What’s not to say she’d do the same to you? Men are more likely to pull some shit like this. I’m not saying it’s right don’t get me wrong but when’s girl does it something really going on there. Because I think I’m most cases women are more loyal. So some red flags there.

[Asker]

Hm i see.

But why me out of all the guys from our social circle? Could it be she knows that i have a crush on her, given that she asked me why i get nervous and if i have a crush?

[Anonymous]

For some people, flirting happens naturally. I am married, but I flirt all the time without even realising I am doing it.

[Asker]

Yes but how cad touching someone like that be a “natural thing”? You do it consciously.

[ZenJen444]

Men tend to take everything a woman does and says as flirting. I doubt she's flirting she's probably just friendly

[Asker]

The thing is dont even know her, we aren't even friends. You dont go out touching people u dont know on their tummy for no reason.

For me at least, i would only do this to a girl i knew very well.