Girls, would you be upset if your boyfriend/husband turned his female friend for emotional support instead of you?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[NewWaves]

Yes.
But how long have they been friends before me?
What can she provide him in terms of emotional support that I'm not?
What does he need then so I can improve on that?
Can I accept that there may be a difference in what he tells me vs her? Is it something I'll have to accept the boundaries of?
Is she gay?

[itsannalee]

Just let him be with her, is she really mean that much for him, they should just be together.

[Asker]

Do you really want to have to comfort a grown man venting or even possibly crying?

[itsannalee]

I don’t want to comfort him if he wants to get comfort with his female friend, just let him be with what he wants. So i have no responsibility for anything about him from that time. Like I said, just let them together.

[Vendetta_]

Aaaabsolutely, because we don't do opposite sex friends. At least not friends that are close enough to be offering emotional support.

[Nikki1989]

A little puzzled maybe, but certainly not upset.