Girls, if your husband asked you to stop being friends with one of your male friends would you do it?

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Men know men and we see things even when they’re not so obvious to women. If your husband told you that your male friend made him uncomfortable and he was just waiting on his opportunity to have sex with you would you listen and stop being friends?

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

HAHAHA! Guess I'm about to be single again! I wish he would...

Unless he gave me a very good reason AND backed it up with proof (because yes, I know men can sometimes see things we as women don't), I would just assume he's being jealous or insecure.

"Men know men and we see things even when they’re not so obvious to women." Yes, most of us realize that, and if said friend did try anything, I'd kick his ass, or end the friendship- as I'd never cheat on a guy I'm with. And as my supposed husband, he should trust me enough to know I wouldn't do anything to hurt him.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Of course. He doesn’t have to tell me. My male friend will become my husbands new friend if it’s true friendship.
on the other hand…I asked the same from my now husband to get rid of that female “friend” unless we become good friends…she never wanted to meet me…she just wanted his time … said I would take him away from her…glad I did. she used him for 15 years and wasted all his life time…while she dated other guys…

MzAsh · Answer

No. I mean, are women going to quit their jobs too because coworkers want to sleep with them? Because that happens literally everywhere we go.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

It depends on the friend, for a normal friend, yes, but not for somebody who is like a brother in my life.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Yes. The husband comes first and if he asks me to stop hanging around a guy friend it's probably because

1) he senses the guy likes me and is an opportunitist

2) I'm being too open (trash talking the relationship or running to him when there's a problem instead of fixing it with my husband

3. Straight up there's something strange about the guy/his lifestyle/ his personality.

Notyouraveragecat · Answer

Depends on how long I've known this person. If he's been my friend since childhood, then that would be a relationship I treasure. But I would take my husbands feelings into consideration and confront my friend about it. If not, I would definetely stop and I'm sure I can tell for myself if someone is trying to flirt with me.

catiecatie · Answer

Would have to tell me the reason why. I have many male friends and I know a couple of them have feelings for me, but I don’t see them like that. If my husband sees something that I don’t then I’d like him to say something and give me a reason why, then I would understand and move on and wouldn’t talk to that male friend again. But again would have to tell me a reason why.

MemeSupreme · Answer

you know... it really depends on how they approach me about it and who that friend is to me. i'll probably just do as they say if it makes their life easier BUT if it's good friend, then they need good reasons lmao

AGAIN it depends on how they approach me about it. if they're a dick about it and start blaming me for their feelings then there's gonna be some problems

Dinklex3 · Answer

Depends on which friend. If it was a new friend he got those vibes from and I felt the same then sure.
My other male friends are some of my best friends and like my family that took care of me. One is my even old supervisor. I will definitely LISTEN to his concerns and we can have a conversation about it, but I will not stop being friends with them. I have pretty healthy boundaries with my friends especially since a lot of them are in relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would, out of respect and because I'm committed to him. No back up guys or players sniffing around you know.

I had a guy friend in school who did everything he could to undermine and end the relationship with my husband. Really sneaky moves.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Women also know women and can tell when she's tryna get at our dude. So when he drops his female friend, I’d drop my guy friend. I dont consider them that important anyways

EmmaMary · Answer

There would certainly need to be an extremely damn good reason why, and not just the one you've mentioned. Ultimate trust is a born necessity in any successful relationship.

es_annie · Answer

Yes, not only do I respect his feelings but I‘ll trust his take of the situation. Simple.

Nikki1989 · Answer

He better have a good reason for making such a demand, so I can't see that ever happening.

Sour-rose · Answer

loooool, he can go get shot in the kneecaps then. I'll be friends with who i want

JustMeL120 · Answer

No it's controlling. I would dump the husband.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would. My husband comes first. But I would try to make compromise about it. For example let him see our messages whenever he wants too or whenever we hang out he can be there etc.

Sasha0426 · Answer

I’m careful on who I’m friends with. I can pick up signs if said friend is doing something sketchy. But, if there is something I’m not aware of, I want my boyfriend/husband to let me know.

Anonymous · Answer

All your questions get deleted for a reason. Stop asking the same question 15 times.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Because he is my other half. He is my counterpart. If he is uncomfortable then i respect his decision and his opinions.

anon1903 · Answer

Not a chance. He needs to grow up.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes i do

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