Ok so my fiancé used to act similar when we would be at parties. Tthese women were clueless, he wouldn't be talking to them, but he would give me cold shoulder whenever they were around and focus on them. He looked like an asshole numerouos times and made the woman awkward along with everyone else in the room. I would suggest doing this : Example scenario the gas station. he's chatting with a attractive woman, you come in and greet him LOVINGLY and SWEETLY and give him the chance to "reject" you in front of her. When he does, look puzzled for a moment and say "What's the matter Honey? We had a great morning together" he will act agitated, and act completely different with you than he did with her. Then pause for a cpl seconds LOOKING confused. You look at her, you look at him, then act like something "clicks" in your head, then look like your heart is breaking a little "ohhhhh... I see" Then look at her with sad defeated eyes, and tell her she is very beautiful. Look down for a cpl seconds (make them squirm a little) and timidly tell him, " Well, I just wanted to let you know Im making your favorite meal for dinner tonight" Then give HIM one last hopeful glance and wait for him to respond like an asshole, then say "Ok sweetie, have a good day" and walk away wiping your eyes. Boom. That woman at the gas station won't help but feel sorry for you for having an asshole husband. She will get it. Plus, HE knows he looks like an asshole in front of that girl he's flirting with. And Imagine how awkward they are going to be once you leave. He won't have a vaid argument later. Wht is he gnna say to u ltr? You came in super nice to me and embarrassed me in front of the woman I was trying to flirt with? By then you can just be innocent and say "what did I do wrong baby?"
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The first thing that came to mind while reading this is that your husband suffers from narcissistic personality disorder. Even if it's something else, he's sick and you can't fix him. I'm so sorry you have to go through this, but you're the only one who can make it stop.
I am actually shocked that you are even married to this guy. How can you stand to be with someone who treats you like this?
Please have some self respect and get these kind of people out of your life for good.
I must say that I didn;t read all of your post but enough to make the judgedgement that he is not respecting you as a human being. What goes on in his mind is anybody's guess but in my opinion, staying with a person who think so lowly of you is dangerous.
I still haven't read all of your writing but I am compelled to tell you to get the HELL out of there! This obese mother father does NOT , I mean NOT deserve YOU!
Fer GOD sake and all of His creations, fer crying out loud!
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I did read the entire post and you need to GET THE HELL OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP! This man clearly wants a woman at home to do the cleaning etc. so he can go out and chase tail, which he clearly has done in the past. "A leopard does not change his spots." Once a cheater always a cheater in my book. Take care of yourself, you deserve better!
I hope everything is better, now:)
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