Guy is talkative and funny when we're alone but ignores me and is cold infront of his wife?

[Anonymous]

He (38m) will always make sexual jokes and be very chatty with me (25f) when we're alone but as soon as his wife is around he blanks me and is cold.

Why? He doesn't even talk to me.

[DaveJord]

Seriously, how dumb are you?

He trying to get with you, and obviously he does not want his wife to see him flirting with you. But he is fucking up, honestly. Because his wife already probably knows... the cold silent treatment, that doesn't fool anyone.

[richardcory]

He is attracted to you and his wife is a jealous sort. He likes flirting with you (maybe with no intent of taking it further, maybe not) but has no intention of leaving his wife.

[Anonymous]

He knows his actions are inappropriate and doesn’t want to get in trouble by her. To me that’s super shady and if I were you I wouldn’t even engage in sexual jokes, out of respect for his partner and honestly yourself.

[boggboss]

U clearly know why its crazy u would need to ask why clearly he knows his behaviour would be classed as cheating to his wife so he doesn't do it infront of her

[spartan55]

Well duh, you think he is going to make sexual comments to you in front of his wife?

[Asker]

But he won't even talk to me

[spartan55]

Apparently he has nothing to talk to you about besides sexual comments.

[Anonymous]

Lol you really need an answer to this question.

[Bobbysworld]

He likes you. But doesn't want his wife to know that.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You know why

[Asker]

What's your perspective on it?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The same reason kids act good around their parents lol.
He doesn't want his wife catching onto the fact that he wants to bang you

[In_Trance]

He's Married!!! wtf are you doing?