Men, who would you rather share your deepest feelings and fears with, a WOMAN or a ROCK?

[KrakenAttackin]

As woman feel safer with a Bear, men might feel safer emotionally with a Rock

As a man I would rather share my deepest feelings with a ROCK.

As a man I would rather share my deepest feelings with a WOMAN.

I am female.

A total of 17 votes were cast: 7 girls and 10 guys. See detailed results

[Lliam]

I don't have a particular need to dump all my feelings or especially fears on anyone.
With a girlfriend, I would only share honest thoughts and feelings that were beneficial to our relationship.

I'm comfortable sharing just about anything with my wife, but even then I don't burden her with unnecessary bullshit that would add to her anxiety. My job is to make her feel safe and secure.
We do talk a lot, though. We don't hide things from each other. She knows more about me than does anyone else.
Besides, I'm not a worrier and am not afraid of much aside from maybe finances.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is fair, but do you realize you said "your job is to make her feel safe"? I agree with this wholeheartedly, but there are plenty of fair weather women who will never reciprocate when a man inevitably hits some hardship.

[Lliam]

That's probably true. My wife and I have been through ups and downs. She has proven her loyalty repeatedly. We're a team. We are dedicated to each other and to our marriage vows.

[KrakenAttackin]

That is unfortunately a very rare occurrence.

[Lliam]

How do you know it's rare?

[KrakenAttackin]

The divorce rate and the fact that only 14% of married women describe themselves as "happily married".

[Lliam]

Is there information on why the 86% of women aren't happy?

[KrakenAttackin]

Specifically, I don't know. I have to think social media and other single women are conspiring to make married women miserable.

[Lliam]

I just wonder how much guys' behavior contributes to a lot of that.

[KrakenAttackin]

Certainly some, but I'm divorce statistics women cite being "bored", having "grown apart", and similar things. The man wasn't exciting enough seems to be the biggest theme.

[Lliam]

Even those things have nuances. Did they feel taken for granted or unappreciated? Did the guys talk to them, treat them as equal partners, make them feel valued and respected? Do they make them feel adored and sexually fulfilled?
Do they encourage them to pursue hobbies or passions? Do they do fun things together like taking day or weekend trips to explore interesting places?

[KrakenAttackin]

Most of these men weren't the women's first choice, let's start with that.

[msc545]

The rock - can't talk back, can't talk to others.

[KrakenAttackin]

And won't weaponize your feelings.

[msc545]

Exactly, or steal from me!

[msc545]

Or cheat on me.

[msc545]

Thank you for MHO!

[D_Bone_Steak]

A rock. The rock won't use information against me later or as a subtle manipulation that I might not even notice until the power plays are being made and I'm relying on my fail safes to save my ass.

Plus I don't want to destroy that fume of mystique I have going on... the most she's going to know about me is that sometimes I fart and then hold her head under the covers and giggle my ass off like a school girl wearing a ballerina outfit that just got told I'm cute. That's when I ask her..."Can you smell what the Rock is cooking!!!"

That's the plan anyhow... age makes me think twice. If my IBS is kicking up I might not attempt it because I could shart on myself.

[worldscolide]

If its my wife, I'd rather share with her.. Any other woman, a rock.

[KrakenAttackin]

You must have a great wife.

[worldscolide]

If it weren't for her, I'd never have grown up, never had a family, and never made changes in my life to get away from my family.

[spartan55]

I'm going to qualify my answer and say I would with the RIGHT woman, but how do you know what that is.

[Juxtapose]

A woman. I don't have anything to say that even saying it to a random woman would get me in trouble, so I am all good.

[Pete671]

Rock - because they don't interrupt you lol,,,

[Jmmmfi4]

DEPENDS ON THE GIRL I SUPPOSE.

[Dongie]

I'm a rock.