What are some of the things in your opinion that men get totally wrong about women?

[thegreenyogi]

[blueonblack22]

Men will never fully understand woman or vice versa. Our literally brains are shaped differently. Their are also evolutionary factors that influence our behaviors. It takes mental effort to understand these differences.

However I do believe that a very small percentage of men naturally understand women. Literally 3% of them. I know I personally don’t belong in that category but I’ve met guys who do. There really is a tiny percentage of men intuitively understand women.

But going back to putting in the mental effort. There was a time women had to put in more mental effort into understanding men given mate selection could make or break their livelihoods and the livelihoods of their children. However I do not believe women naturally understand men better then vice versa. I was told growing up that women had this advantage but now I no longer believe that. Traditionally they understood men better just because they had to.

Also if women did naturally understand men then society wouldn’t have all the deranged modern feminism going on. These women would naturally better understand how much harm they are doing both to men and ultimately to themselves through modern feminism bs.

[LiamJHayden]

They all want guys 6' or taller. I have gotten rejected for being too tall at 6'2.

[thegreenyogi]

I'm sorry about that one.

[LiamJHayden]

No, it's fine. If everyone always liked the same things life would be boring.

[thegreenyogi]

True. I'm one of those who prefer taller men because I am already quite tall myself. That's why I said I was sorry.

[Anonymous]

“Feminism”

They’ll claim and shout from the rooftops that it is “toxic”, “want men wiped from existence”, “blame all world’s problems on men”, and “anti man” without talking to actual Feminists. Just like Toxic Masculinity, there can be & will be Toxic Feminity… Though here is a chart to show the difference:

Replace “Masculine” with “Feminine” and you’ll see what I mean on both sides. “Supportive of the masculine”(Femininity) & “Represses the masculine”(Toxic Feminity)

Feminists want equal rights for women and better treatment while advocating against the injustices of the world for the progress to fix the injustice marginalized against women. That is all. Blaming all women & labelling them as “sexist”, “they don’t like men”, etc. doesn’t help anyone… Just makes all us guys look like morons which furthers division in the culture wars that people subscribe to. Let’s see each other as people and respect each other as people, stop shouting anti woman sentiment because it doesn’t help anyone.

Summary: Feminists want and push for equality by voicing concern of the injustices & double standards of the world to move the needle towards support, inclusion, and equality to make progress. You are backwards if you think differently.

[blueonblack22]

You have been brainwashed.

[Opinion Owner]

@blueonblack22 Care to explain?
Literally I’m saying toxic women & men share these traits: Forceful + controlling, Distracted + scattered, Numb to heart + emotions, Inconsistent + flighty, Ego driven, Represses the opposite gender traits
The positive and actual advocates for men & women & fellow humans share the opposite of those traits.

[blueonblack22]

One thing you don’t fully comprehend is there are evolutionary traits that influence men’s and women’s behavior.

Once upon a time women had to rely their sexual prowess and manipulation to ensure their own livilihoods and the survival of their children. They had to be picky with mate selection. So they are naturally drawn to men who could best protect and provide for them. Also they had to develop radar to reject, use and/or avoid men that could not directly benefit them. Men are not special to women JUST for existing. We are only special via AGENCY that is what value we can provide (looks, money, social clout by association, protection, etc.). But if a man can’t provide any of those things he is EXPENDABLE regardless if he’s a threat to a woman or not. However society does place value on women JUST for existing. If you don’t believe me then why does the media always say “innocent women and children were killed” in military conflicts? What about the innocent civilian men?

[blueonblack22]

Anyway you can’t defy thousands of years of evolution with 50 years of socially constructed feminism. This is resulting in modern women having a “I am equal but special” expectation. They are setting impossible standards for men.

Generally most are also unaware and/or in denial how they are treated special in society JUST for existing.

So now singlehood rates are at all time highs. There are a myriad of different reasons for this (porn, social media, etc). But the original sin is without a doubt MODERN FEMINISM. Yes men are doing things to make themselves less dateable. We are not beyond reproach. But still the number one problem really is modern women. They just can’t evolve out of the evolutionary selfishness.

Anyway I believe complaining won’t ever solve anything. This will only change when modern women come to grips that their behaviors and actions are number one reason for their own misery.

[Opinion Owner]

@blueonblack22 “ Anyway you can’t defy thousands of years of evolution with 50 years of socially constructed feminism. This is resulting in modern women having a “I am equal but special” expectation. They are setting impossible standards for men.”
Okay why don’t you work on a farm like the good ol’ Caste System days during Feudal Europe listening to God praying you’ll be reincarnated into a better role in a future life? Why is it okay for men to come forward about their sexuality / not live by gender roles enforced by tradition? Why is it you are working 100 hr in some sweatshop to lose your fingers in or working in a dangerous steel mill? Progress is a good thing! Yes we can defy it and we have. Women vote, women shop with their own credit cards, and women are politicians.

[Opinion Owner]

@blueonblack22 PS Try telling women you are against women’s rights and they’ll tear you a new one and rightfully so. I support women’s rights and I support men’s rights. That is it.

[ManOnFire]

Men often believe women are more pure and want gentlemen because they've been taught that women are these things, when they are often times the opposite. Men also believe that women don't cheat as much and care less for casual sex, which is also often times the opposite.

[valentina4eva]

- when we are upset it’s (usually) for a valid reason, and not just us being “over emotional” or “hormonal” 😵😵


- that sometimes we just aren’t interested and it’s not just playing hard to get🙃


- that if their opener is ONLY “hey/hi” it’s not the girls’ fault he doesn’t get a reply😅😬

[petitedollbabee]

As Mandy said, pretty much everything to do with our anatomy down there. Also, that we care heavily about penis size and a man’s height, that we want a 6ft tall man with an 8 inch dong. And if we say that we don’t want that, we’re lying.

[Miristheiss]

You LIE!!!

[Kayleigh2005]

Omg right 6 inches who wants to get stabbed

Also, being nice at work doesn’t equal flirting guys fck smh

[molonski2]

I agree with that..
I think there should be classes in school to show how to best perform oral sex , when I started I had no idea..

[Unit1]

🥰💕💕

[msc545]

@petitedollbabee It's Interesting that you skipped the part about money...

[petitedollbabee]

@msc545 Honestly it didn’t even come to mind. Most guys are just concerned with their height or penis size. Only the super insecure ones are also paranoid about women being gold diggers.

[msc545]

No, smart ones are concerned about women's greed.

[petitedollbabee]

It’s usually only the ones who don’t really have money that are paranoid about that though.. like, gold diggers aren’t going to waste their breath on your 70k income per year man.

A lot of it is just fear mongering among men, gold diggers aren’t common, and y’all have got more important things to worry about than some imaginary woman who’s just out for your money.

[Still-alive]

That msc dude is an incel. im convinced now. i blocked him for a good reason lol

[Chthou95]

a lot of regular joe schmoes get dwindled out of money for all kinds of reasons. Why would a rich man be exempt from all this

[disappoint3d]

Not true I make a little over 70k a year and got stuck with a girl from a much poorer family that 100% saw me as a meal ticket.

[msc545]

@petitedollbabee ok how about you provide some support for your opinions that most women don't care about how much many a man has or makes and that women don't care about any amounts under 70,000. Link some articles or research that supports these notions please. Otherwise, these are only your opinions which are essentially meaningless in this context.

[mandyfire98]

A lot of it is just not knowing anything about how our vaginas actually work. Which is ironic considering how much they seem to be obsessed with it.

[disappoint3d]

Then please, enlighten us. How DO they actually work...

[WhiteSteve]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=6KTSZHrY3u8

[disappoint3d]

@WhiteSteve but... Squirting IS pee...

[mandyfire98]

For one, the vagina doesn't permanently stretch after sex. That one is constantly spread by guys who don't know how vaginas work. There are a lot of guys that actually believe that women pee out of the actual vagina. Also ridiculous. Also many men falsely believe that the labia has anything to do with how much penetration a vagina receives.

I can go on and on and on.

[disappoint3d]

Everything you just listed was stuff I think most guys have figured out by the time they're 16.

[Wallythewalrus2]

@mandyfire98 I actually thought girls peed out of their tushies. I thought that's why they had to sit on the toilet, imagine how foolish I felt when my mom told me last year that girls have an actual urethra in front! Then again, everyone knows Wally is just a big fucking dummy.

[mandyfire98]

@disappoint3d

I wish that was true 😂.
I've had grown men argue with me before about it. Lol

[Anonymous]

They've all fallen for the lie that women dress in revealing clothes for themselves. They're also convinced themselves that women aren't always looking for an upgrade. Guys want to believe the lies though. It helps them sleep at night.

[ManOnFire]

So true. Because most men are afraid to learn the truth about women, that they are not the sweet, innocent angels that they've been taught to believe they are. I can't entirely fault guys for that though seeing as parents and society have brainwashed guys to look at women in only one way. Learning the truth about the opposite sex can be painful, especially when your mind has been programmed to view them as NOT what you think.

[Opinion Owner]

@ManOnFire 100%. But I got to grow up around mostly females and they went out of their way to make sure to tell me the truth. The opposite of what most people are taught.

[ManOnFire]

Wow, you were incredibly lucky.

[Anonymous]

That women are loyal if you're a good man. Don't get me wrong there are good women who are pretty loyal. But women are slaves thier feelings. I'm sure you've heard the saying that men will sacrifice e thier happiness for thier family and that women will sacrifice thier family for thier happiness. Many a man has had to learn this lesson the hard way.

[Anonymous]

That women are actually strong and independent. That they will stay boss bitches all their lives. Eventually they find out they don’t want to work the rest of their lives, that it sucks. That they want a family, kids, especially around this time of the year. Not all but a lot of women are realizing this as they get closer to 30. That all their friends are in relationships, have kids. She’s still alone. Now a lot of men don’t want her.

[Kayleigh2005]

Being nice at work doesn’t equal flirting, ok, guys fck smh

If going to stare between my legs at least talk about something interesting 😂

[BlckGrl]

omggg this. it's because they're only nice to women they find attractive and simply don't understand that a woman who is nice doesn't want him.

[Chthou95]

@BlckGrl True men are only nice to women they find attractive. You're absolutely right about that. But let's not act like women are angels who don't do the same. Women treat ugly men like shit as well. Both genders are guilty of this

[BlckGrl]

I don't know maybe I have in the past but it treat others how I want to be treated regardless of outer

[DrPepper12]

That they don't need to be on their period to be bitchy. There's all kinds of other reasons she could be acting bitchy and if you're her man you're probably the reason

[Flower7]

That their lives are easy just because they have less trouble getting sex than men do. There’s so many other parts of life than that!

[Account]

That we collectively give a fuck about their money.

[Adel50]

Can you be with someone who's poor?

[ManOnFire]

@Account Studies show that women consistently choose or pursue men with money. But they will have sex with guys who have nothing going for themselves if he is sexually arousing to her.

[disappoint3d]

Saying we are all afraid of "gold diggers" is a misnomer. Most people will never be rich enough to even encounter a real gold digger.

HOWEVER, there are plenty of women who come from poor backgrounds but were gifted with good "bodily assets" who show up and crash their lives on dudes and use them ad meal tickets just because they have decent jobs and can't say no to sex if she's hot enough. And sure she might -kinda- like him, but really is just using him to pay her bills she otherwise can't.

I'd say this is actually something women don't understand about men as opposed to the other way around.

[Garud]

The most important thing is, that not all women are the same.

I want to be wrong about my opinion and consciously look for the positive side. Unfortunately, I get fewer examples, what can I do after all this is the world around me

[Agape93]

Wet =/= ready to go
That we always play games
We can't use tools or weapons correctly
That we aren't capable of violence
That we all want marriages or children

[moneymagnet24]

Next time be with good men lol

[Agape93]

Oh I am. I learn from my mistakes

[moneymagnet24]

What you're doing?

[Agape93]

Right now I'm making dinner

[moneymagnet24]

Ohk come to corner of the room I'm waiting for you there alone 😘

[Agape93]

Lol dork

[moneymagnet24]

I hold your hand 😘
Let's go Babe 😘

[molonski2]

Yeah , Wet is just straight Biology 101 ..
Most women being raped get wet , its body safety.

This was explained to me in detail by a stripper ( we had a club , and were talking about this )
In her particular case , she got wet every time , but not because attracted to these dudes , it is the body preparing , so there is no damage.

The rest , yeah I think there are many generalisations.

[Agape93]

Even then, often times there is damage. Sometimes permanent. Wet just helps, but we aren't dilated enough for it to really avoid more damage

[molonski2]

I rarely initiate penetration , which is pretty common here..
I still find some girls go too quickly in my opinion , it seems to be a trait.
But really the point is Biological , its protection for both..
If you have ever had Thrush , this is extremely irritating for males too , so in absolute essence , " the wetter the better " and every other measure possible..
This is why I love giving oral sex.

[ProbablyClueless]

A lot of guys think it's easier for women to be assertive than it is. I blame that on porn, honestly. But a lot of guys just assume women just need to speak up a little more.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That they are all whores, everyone should be aware that's not the case, that they are all more emotional, even tho for the most part there's truth to that there's actually some that aren't.

[ManOnFire]

I would argue that most men think women AREN'T whores. Which unfortunately is why a lot of guys end up getting hurt and turning to RedPill, instead of using the experience as a learning lesson in what to look out for next time around, and also to help them be more self-aware as well.

[Grond21]

They often miss how vital safety is to women, and they don't understand the difference between physical vs emotional safety.

Oh, and they don't know when to just listen

[Shiprex]

That they will still respect you as a man when you do something that seems weak.

Thinking that it is men who are oppressors.

Think women are afraid of men all the time.

[Yannae]

Mine is not hungry, but that magically changes when I come back with my food. "I am not hungry" to me means that you're not hungry. And yet...

[Fireguy17]

that they enjoy getting pictures of their schwanzsucker.

[LifeHitMeandRan]

That a woman can truly love a man unconditionally. This is very, very rare.

[Peridot25]

Nah, we’re totally heartless. Stay away from women. And, if you are in a relationship, run!

[BlckGrl]

That we all desperately crave those extremely built athletic gym bodies... hell no it's so gross

[disappoint3d]

You just broke so many spirits with this comment

[BlckGrl]

Well it's true

[disappoint3d]

Ok but you like fit dudes right? Just not the ones who look like bald steroid pin cushions?

[BlckGrl]

On average for women it varies he can be fit but too toned isn't it a little plush is good and if he skinny he has to have a little tone of he's bigger he has to have a little tone hope this makes sense

[BarryLiverstone]

Some guys try to use lines and treat all girls the same when each one has her own personality to learn.

[Ladsin2]

I don't think women like the soft/ effeminate men that they say they do and that some men think they do. I think that women are actually pretty repulsed by them.

[Unit1]

That they are money hungry for our money.

Not necessarily true.

[Peridot25]

If that’s not true, then why are men avoiding women like the plague?

[Unit1]

@Peridot25 Show me

[Peridot25]

Why?

[Anonymous]

That we have to orgasm every time and if we don't it means they aren't good in bed.

[michalpl00]

My ex came 5 times 🤣 you mean that some girls don’t finish at all. That is crazy.

[Opinion Owner]

@michalpl00 sometimes a girl has to fake it. I've faked it 5 times too.

[michalpl00]

I don’t think she faked it. We did it for two hours if she did she's a goddamn good actor hahaha

[ManOnFire]

@Anonymous To be fair, it's WOMEN who have made men believe that.

[disappoint3d]

... this is something perpetuated BY women tho...

[Lieutenant00]

Can u look at u while u r coming?

[ManOnFire]

@disappoint3d Exactly.

[Raaj4you]

No, all my opinions about women are 💯% correct. 😂

[slatyb]

They aren't as sexual as men.

[dustybiker2]

@slatyb Not as openly sexual

[slatyb]

@dustybiker2 Perhaps I wasn't entirely clear. I think many men believe that women are less sexual, but I think the truth is simply that most women are more careful because they bear almost all the risk from sexual contact.

[dustybiker2]

This is true

[Peridot25]

Everything they say about us is correct.

[Peridot25]

We’re bad people. I highly suggest men to stay away from women completely.

[disappoint3d]

Dude like what is actually wrong with you? Are you a reddit moderator?

[Peridot25]

I’m just going by what men said about women.

[Peridot25]

Also, I don’t have Reddit.

[WowGIrl4ever]

That we like dick pics

[moneymagnet24]

I don't think too much about women.

[kaucky1]

They use lies or pretend to be somebody else

[MoonFace2]

That most of us are aroused by dick pics.

[disappoint3d]

Would you like a picture of my ripped abs coming up out of a pool as I fling my dripping wet hair back instead?

[MoonFace2]

@disappoint3d I’d prefer that, yes

[disappoint3d]

Lmao thank you for your honest and astute response.

[zertgh]

lift carry by women

[Chthou95]

The women are wonderful effect