Should women decide to be done with beauty as we know it?

[Peopedotoomuch]

I’ve decided I’m possibly done with beauty as we know it

I’m tired of focusing on being conventionally beautiful. The tiny waist, big eyes tiny nose small chin big boobbutt small foot short height thick lips,

When I have a long hair wig straight sleek men hit in me it’s creepy how shallow men are. They act like totally different people

I realize now that all focusing on looks does it perpetuates the comparing of one woman to another.

That’s why Guys neg me about certain features. Because they stare at nookie workers online and jackoff and they realize oh she has these features and I don’t have them so they think I’m fucked up for how I look for not matching the cookie cutter sexworker face and body features or Angelina Jolie face features the world considers most beautiful.

When even I try to look pretty for myself it still is me comparing myself to the beauty ideal woman. And to those who don’t fit it.

Also I decided I don’t want to seek a man by looking beautiful. Because first of all like I said men who come to me when I look more that way are turds and creeps. Secondly, I want a man who loves me for me and my soul and no matter how I look. Focusing on my looks kind shows that I don’t believe that.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t think all women should do anything I think you should do you and do what’s right for you. At the end of the day people judge you no matter what you do if you let yourself go you’re homely and a slob. But if you take time to fix yourself up you’re vain.

People who nag about looks are just trying to feel better about themselves more often then not. It’s their own insecurities because you look at these people and you wonder why they have any room to talk.

Wanting to someone to love you for your soul is important. All men are different so are all women. So not all men are attracted to the same thing

[molonski2]

Its probably more of a " time of life " issue for you , you are essentially in the process of giving all that up , each to their own , but its a timing issue. Nothing wrong with with aspiration to conventual beauty , but if it works for you , then dont worry about it.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, it is often a source of significant pressure and anxiety.

[Avicenna]

Do what works for you. Beauty is anyhow broader than the physical.

[backdoorman]

If you are so inclined, then yes, you should.

[DryGermanGuy]

Get professional help, you eternal weirdo.