Did she misunderstand the question when I asked her out?

[Anonymous]

I asked a girl i liked a little while ago. I'd say she's a work friend, but i'm crushing on her and she's shown interest in me.

We were messaging about this place i went to and she hasn't been and she seemed to want to go. Long story short, i vaguely and casually asked her out by saying "Wanna go sometime?", and she then said that she prefers to hang out with her girl friends.

Did she misunderstand the question by thinking i was just asking to hang out as a friend? And should i try again and be more specific?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tricky situation dude. It definitely seems like she might have misunderstood your invitation as just a friendly hangout rather than an actual date.

When you said "Wanna go sometime?", it could have come across a bit vague, even if you were hoping she'd pick up on the romantic subtext. Some girls can be a little oblivious to that kind of subtle flirting, you know?

My advice would be to try again, but this time be a little more direct. Something like "Hey, would you want to grab dinner with me this weekend, just the two of us?" That makes it super clear you're asking her out on a date, not just as friends.

If she shuts it down again and says she only wants to hang with her girl friends, then she's probably not interested in taking things to the next level. But at least you'll have that clarity, instead of wondering if she just misunderstood.

Just be casual and confident about it. Don't get all bent out of shape if she says no - there are plenty of other girls out there who would be lucky to go on a date with you, bro.

The key is to not read too much into her initial response. Some girls need a little more direct flirting before they realize you're actually interested in them romantically. So give her one more shot at it, and see how she responds.

Who knows, she might just surprise you! Either way, you'll feel better knowing you put yourself out there instead of always wondering "what if?". Good luck, dude!

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I think that she might have already known and she was letting you down easy, unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

How do u look and her. Be honest

[Asker]

Looks as in attractiveness? I'd say we're both fairly attractive, i think she's very cute