How do you approach a girl at the gym and not come off as a creep?

[Anonymous]

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Most girls don't want to be approached while at the gym. MAYBE after, but honestly approaching her alone in a parking lot isn't the best idea either lol

If you are going to do it, my recommendation is to be fast. Just pass over your number/social media handle, be brief and then move on so as not to bother her during her exercise. You wouldn't want to be disturbed by someone else during your sets, would you?

If she shows interest in the conversation then it's safe to continue. Just be good at reading body language to know when to stop and let her get back to her workout.

[BobsBigBuds]

How do you go swimming in trunks without getting wet?

lol, what i’m saying is- You don’t. You can’t. You’re a man; if you’re single and want to approach women, you’re a creep, just accept it and roll with it.

But hey, doesn’t mean it’s impossible to strike up conversation….. Or try at least. But if she doesn’t respond well, be prepared, and don’t lash out like some insecure asshole.

Ok ok, better answer- Don’t think of it like this…like there’s some method of approaching women, in any setting. The whole “pick up lines” thing etc…Is ridiculous imho. Be yourself, be genuine, know who you are and what you want, and that’s all you can do.

Insecurity, being uneasy, meek, shy uncertain…. all those things will make you creepy and weird.

With the right level of confidence with humility, you can approach in setting that’d typically make you creepy af, but end up connecting!

Direct confident honest, be that and you’re all good basically

[Anonymous]

I don't ever want to be approached by strangers, and I especially don't want it at the gym.

[HoldingtheSword]

I say "Hey what's up chick, there's something here I want you to taste, come and take a look"

[seeyounexttuesday]

Be attractive

[Fury_storm]

be good looking