As a parent, what do I say to my daughter who has told me about her starting an 'only for fans' account?

[Anonymous]

I feel glad that she felt comfortable enough to tell me that she is doing it, but I am concerned.

[_Maya_]

Well. If she is living under your roof then it is your rules. That simply means she cannot do it unless you allow her. I believe only fans is 18+ which means if she is not an adult and living under your rules and roof then you can stop her from doing it. If she was older than 18 then she has the option to move out and support herself. I would make her understand that a tiny fraction of content creators make enough to support themselves and have no other income. A fraction of that small group make a lot of money. So there is your answer. The one question I have is that your profile indicates you are at max 24 years old. How could you have a daughter olf enough to be able to do only fans or even close to an age to understand what it is?

[Asker]

I don't like to put my personal information out on the internet, that includes my name, birthdate, etc

[IslaTheWitch]

to keep her face and real data hidden... if she trusts you enough to tell you that, be her friend and help her to avoid the worst of the consequences...

if you tell her not to do it and she already made her mind... you will lose her trust... so it's your choice... she will do what she wants anyway... with you or without...

[Anonymous]

lol ok so at the oldest according to your “profile,” you’re 24. How old is your “daughter?” If this is true I take it your a single mom.

[Opinion Owner]

you’re a single mom.

[Asker]

I don't insert my personal details onto online sites

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so how old is your daughter? Single mom?

[Asker]

She is 19 in August. Yes I am a single mom

[Opinion Owner]

Where’s dad? I think I’d ask her why she wants to do such a thing. Is she looking for fast money at the expense of her reputation?

[Asker]

He left when I was 6 months pregnant

[Opinion Owner]

Why? I’m not sure there’s much you can do about your daughter heading in that direction. She’s going to have to experience it herself. She won’t learn till she realizes the consequences of her choices. Have you been single ever since she was born?

[Asker]

It's just typical men incapable of commitment. I have been in relationships since but none really long term

[Opinion Owner]

Typical men you may date. A majority of the men I surround myself have families. I’ve surrounded myself w men who I look up to. As much as women like to think men are afraid of commitment, a lot of us aren’t. A lot of men want families, marriage. But a lot of today’s women are just as bad as the shitty men we have in this country. So if I asked you I’d nothing to do whim leaving? You were 100% the best person?

[MaddyJ]

That’s a hard one. I would never do it, but if someone wants to then more power to them. I know my parents would freak out

[Anonymous]

"I'm sorry I failed you as a parent"

[jahaims]

You are 18-24 with an 18 child?

[Wise4myage]

Wish her good luck lol.

[MasterKS]

Its a modern world, cope up.

[seeyounexttuesday]

fake and gay