What to do you do if your girlfriend has an OnlyFans account?

[alonso]

I've just learned that my girlfriend has an OnlyFans account. I don't know much about this web site. But as I know, it is not good for someone in a relationship. So, what would be your reaction in this case? What do you do if your girlfriend has an OnlyFans account?

[MaazHussain]

Firstly, it's important to recognize that people have different boundaries and comfort levels when it comes to sexuality and their online presence. It's possible that your girlfriend's decision to have an OnlyFans account is something she feels comfortable with and is not necessarily a reflection on your relationship or her commitment to you.

That being said, if you are uncomfortable with your girlfriend having an OnlyFans account, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings. Try to approach the conversation without judgment and listen to her perspective as well. It's possible that there are underlying reasons why she decided to create an account, such as financial need or a desire for autonomy over her own body and sexuality.

If you're unable to come to a mutual understanding or compromise, it may be worth considering whether this is a dealbreaker for you in the relationship. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own feelings and values while also respecting your girlfriend's autonomy and choices.

[Nikki1989]

Your comment is one of the only sensible ones here.

[Heterosketero]

@Nikki1989 And you, the most reasonable to say so.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Not good... maybe... have you looked her Onlyfans over? I mean I even have one, but mine is just a joke. Not all of the chicks there are selling pictures of the B-hole to all your friends that can't get a real girlfriend.

Is your girl doing things like saying "Join my onlyfans... onlyfans. com/d_bone_steak" and it just being a hobby or a joke like mine? ... and don't look at me funny... my parents and grandparents are on facebook now so I had to escape. 😂 It can be an alternative to the common facebook/Instagram... especially if Grandma is there now asking about your life when you're just there to shitpost.

I'm just saying I need more context. Is she selling pics of her B-hole, or is she just there talking about camping or something? Is it a thing she's hiding from you? like you've been told about it, but is she showing you her profile?

[hinaaaaaa]

That's entirely up to you to decide. Everybody has different boundaries and lists of what they can and can't handle/put up with.

I wouldn't say Onlyfans isn't great for relationships. It just depends on the relationship. I've had friends that have done Onlyfans and their boyfriends will support them and even help promote them. But again everyone's views are different.

[Aerissa_Jade]

That depends, what is she doing with her OnlyFans? It may not be nudity or sexual. It could be other things, as that website is designed for many other things too even if that is the reputation it has.

Maybe she is showing people how to craft or something.

Ask her or find out.

[coachTanthony]

Make her pay for dinner and the movie.

[CateM]

What if she already is paying too?

[Datboi65]

I see that you have on your status "engaged" so I'm gonna need you to pay attention for me. DO NOT MARRY THAT WOMAN.

If she has an onlyfans account, she basically sells her nudes for other men for money. A woman that's engaged mind you, without your prior consultation. You didn't agree to this, so that's another reason to dump her.

If she didn't ask you, she doesn't respect you enough to at least give you the courtesy to say no. Would you marry a woman that does not respect you? I wouldn't say that that is a wise decision.

Do the right thing and let her go, you deserve better.

[grierwrange]

Don’t think you have the right to say don’t marry her. Maybe he has one too or does creepy things online not saying he does but don’t make these comments unless you know the whole story. Like if he was one of her fans then why would you say he deserved better

[Datboi65]

@grierwrange Excuses for bad behavior. Where have I heard that one before? 🤔

If this was a man talking to other women, you will ask the girl to dump him with no further questions. I have zero tolerance for disrespect, and I encourage him to do the right thing and remove that source of chaos out of his life. If you think he should become "one of her fans" then you are probably not good for a relationship either.

[Finchie40]

If she is doing sexual shit without you knowing then kick her ass to the curb where she belongs , The fact that she kept it hidden from you is a huge red flag that shows she truly doesn’t value you or respect you so you have every right to be pissed off and to end it with her cuz she is clearly cheating on you by keeping shit secretive like that , How would she feel if you were keeping shit hidden from her like that? It just shows how selfish and disrespectful she is and only cares about herself , so it’s up to you what you want to do but I honestly wouldn’t be to happy about it knowing she is doing sexual shit to get guys to give her money , degrading and disrespectful period

[Sirenboobzilla]

That's really only for you to decide. You're only going to get mixed answers here.

All yourself: Do you love her? Does this entirely change how you feel about her? Does she give you any inkling that she's being unfaithful?

Also talk to her. All her why she does it. What's her plan. Is this money just for her or is she putting it towards both of you.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Grounds for instant break-up (divorce if we were married). I have no respect for girls that do shite like that.

[HighValue]

I'd leave her and have nothing to do with her. I refuse to be with immoral people like that. And their past matters and shows their morals so if someone has EVER done something like that they will forever not be good enough.

[Anonymous]

It's not a positive sign. At best she's degrading herself just to make money and at worst she's doing for the attention to boot. The first show she lacks morals and values. Do you really want to date that type of woman. The second shows she has no self respect. And you CANNOT have a healthy relationship with someone who does not respect themselves.

[mstbooblover]

I don't see the problem if my girlfriend had an OnlyFans account, and allow me even to add that if that account was about erotic and sexual fun, maybe I'd even love to participate...

[Oddquestiona96]

Honestly I would just have say what I'm comfortable with and not. If she was doing sex stuff already I would want to fuck ger on it. Monkey brain tells me that prove she mine 😂. I would also have a big talk about honesty for the future

[Quackthulu2]

She does, I’ve taken pictures for her. As long as she follows the rules it’s not a problem with me.

[BeMuse]

She's a sex worker. Either find a new girlfriend, or start recruiting new girls and take your cut out of her check.

[Gibbons44]

Oh, be her pimp or enjoy free sex understanding she fucks others as well.
You are probably her free (paid for by sex) insurance or a driver or a bodyguard as it is.

[RMorus]

It's perfectly true that it's not only for adult content:

[Adam1978]

Dump her. She value money more than herself. A good woman wouldn't even consider making such a page.

[Phoenix98]

Add a nice little ex to her title and go my own way. Not gonna be with someone who's basically a internet prostitute.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd dump her ass. Let the door hit you on the way out.

[Fireguy17]

I have no idea what that is.
I have seen that name here a few times, but that is it.

[Zayed_]

Break up her without even giving her a notice.

[MzAsh]

How did you find out?

[Heterosketero]

Strangely, few find out on Onlyfans lol

[MzAsh]

Yeah if a dude on OF finds his girlfriend on there then oh well tough luck lol

[Guy13]

End that relationship.