How to comfort your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has dealt with some drama on Instagram this girl doesn't like her because of her age she's 29 almost 30 this girl is 18. Every time she tries to make up with her and adds her back she always leaves her out everything she made a group chat with her and her 2 best friends and left her out her friends are 18 and 20. Then she texted one of her friends telling her she rather accocitate with people who are more her age. Now her followers are trying to get her to add her back and apologize but she has nothing to apologize for she left her out and sent rude messages to her friends she should be apologizing. It scares her she'll lose another friend she had one message her saying she needed to talk to her she blocked her. Now another one of her friends are bestfriends with her she's worried she'll ask her to. She doesn't get why people are trying to get her to accocitate with her when she hates her she needs to grow up and act like an adult no 18 year old should act like that if she didn't wanna be friends with a 30 year old she shouldn't have followed her in the first place. Until she apologizes she wants nothing to do with her. she's afraid she's gonna spred rumors about her. How can I comfort her? What should I say to her?

[SueShe]

The first thing to do is the get your girlfriend off all social media.

It is a fact that those social media are poison, toxic platforms that misuse almost every single user in a way or another. These social mobbing has led to some people to have severe depressions and even some to commit suicide because of that.

You can help your girlfriend by trying to motivate her to leave those social media. She should realize that those online friends are nothing more than people seeking validation at the cost of others.

As long as she remains on those social media, she will possibly be the target of mobbing and social terror by others that do not share the opinions or that find any reason to take it out on others.

Social media is the gangrene of the 21st. century and the only way to avoid this gangrene is not to allow it into your life. Good luck.

[KrakenAttackin]

@SueShe. Absolutely spot on.

[Anonymous]

I stopped reading after you mentioned Instagram.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is a non-problem. Your girlfriend needs to develop a thicker skin.

[In_Trance]

You lost me at drama on Instagram

[AlperEngin93]

Tell her there are more 18 year olds