How to comfort your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend was talking with her friends on Instagram they told her I was evil that I kill people and I'm a bad person I'm not I wouldn't hurt anyone. she's really upset about it she's hugging me really tight she won't stop crying she's not sure why people gotta be so mean online. How can I calm her down? What should I say to her?

[Gent207-2]

I agree with @Guy13

She doesn't want to be fixed or made happy. Just be present and supportive; don't offer any solutions or advice unless she explicitly asks for them.

You two are not weak - I'd say you are both empaths possibly INFJs (look up Myers-Briggs Typology Indicator)

[Guy13]

I am not those things and listen to her. Let her process because it’s more than about you…in fact most of it is not. Simply being there as a rock 🪨 is sufficient. She wants to be heard and held NOT fixed. 👍

[Lighthouse29]

Dont comfort her with words , do that with actions, take her to dates. Give food to animals (she would be like omg he is too cute to hurt someone) , so yes

[CarolineW]

If she's dumb enough to believe what she's told on social media, maybe you should hink about looking elsewhere

[Juxtapose]

Really? That's all it takes to get her to cry? What a weakling.

[In_Trance]

Why do you need to say anything?
This is retarded