How would you feel if your wife had an OnlyFans account?

[Anonymous]

Would it change the way you view the relationship or your level of trust?

[Finchie40]

If she wasn’t open and honest with me about it , then I would feel lied to and betrayed , but if she was open and honest with me about it , then I would be ok with it , especially if she is making a shit ton of money from it and not doing anything to jeopardize our relationship. I never dated an Only Fans girl but I have dated strippers before and it didn’t bother me because she was open and honest with me about it and treated me like Gold. So I had no reason to be against it

[NicholasRedone]

@Finchie40 I'll ask you finch : would you have supporter her OF or starred?

[NicholasRedone]

@Finchie40 *supported her : genuinely asking - I would have my woman 👠

[NicholasRedone]

@Finchie40 and even starred (probs facelessly) takes two to tango lol 🪩🩰

[Finchie40]

Absolutely , if she treated me like Gold i would gladly support her

[NicholasRedone]

@Finchie40 I feel like the smartest thing I've heard in a while came from TV commercials I'd been ignoring Finchie - that eHarmony commercial where they show 'get who gets you" - there's the secret right there to a happy successful lasting relationship marriage. That's the secret 😂😂 now we all know

[Finchie40]

Yea having a lot in common with someone is important for a happy long lasting relationship, sadly a lot of people end up with people that they don’t have a lot in common with , because they are just infatuated by their beauty or looks , and overlooking the things that matter the most. It takes more than just looks for a relationship to last

[NicholasRedone]

@Finchie40 the hardest part is actually even coming close to or stumbling upon a suitable match even close to suitable, would you say so with your wiser years on me?

[NicholasRedone]

@Finchie40 taking lust at first eye out of the equation for a moment

[Finchie40]

From my personal experiences and things I have witnessed through the years , it’s wiser to date someone first until you really get to know each other before even considering a committed relationship with them. Most people jump into commitment without looking at the big picture and that’s where the both of you are playing with fire , because yes in the beginning things are always great usually in the beginning, because it’s new and exciting for the both of you , the excitement and passion is there but sadly that’s it , once that excitement and passion starts to fade , that’s when both of you might realize wait a second? We really don’t have much in common with each other , and you start to miss the things that you actually enjoyed doing , that you put on hold , for this new person and then start to resent them because they really don’t like the things you like to begin with , they just said they didn’t appease you or each other. Why I only do FWB’s with girls’ with some strings attached to give the both of us time to really get to know each other before making the big decision to be committed 100 percent. Especially these days with how the dating world is today with people just wanting casual sex and leaving their options opened , FWB’s with some strings attached kind of eliminates that from happening because it gives the both of you some breathing room to really decide if you 2 really want to be together for the long haul , instead of the short haul

[HungTexan]

I hadn’t thought about it. I’m sure she’d have quite a following. She’s 70, looks 20 younger, is smoking hot— I’d be ok with it I think, but our kids might object if they knew.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

How would you feel if you, as a man, had one and no one wanted it?

[Vampirelover_12]

I'm very sex positive, so yeah. As long as she's safe.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach - yes, I have a pretty cool job 😎 - I'd dive into how comfortable both partners are with it. It's all about boundaries, trust, and communication! If both partners agree and support it, then it’s perfectly fine. If it shakes the trust tree, though, it's worth a heart-to-heart chat. Open dialogue is key, so everyone’s feelings are on the table instead of going ghosted!

[AviatorTom]

I'd probably be upset if I accidentally discovered it. If she told me about it, and we talked about it, I might be okay with it.

It's unlikely to happen, so I guess I'll never know how I would feel.

[Communicationisking]

This question feels like you are someone or someone you know is finding out that the wife has an onlyfans creator account. In this case I feel there is a lack of communication and that couple need to talk it out and also work on communicating with each other.

If it is a wife that just has an account that isn't a creator account then it is no big deal really

[NicholasRedone]

Hell I'd have had a PornHub account and a OnlyFans account as well, especially during the Covid lockdowns *had* I had a girlfriend or a friends with benefits or a partner for a time - ah well ❤️‍🩹 😃 😄 who knows if it would've been faceless content of us. Ah well 😃 what could've been , trails off...🥳🎉👀😛 For it proudly is the work of the devil 😈😈😈 to me. Proudly

[NicholasRedone]

Nope, no trust would've been impacted - if anything I'd have kissed my wife or girlfriend in your scenario, on the forehead, cuddled her smiley and said "Can I join in with your content, so it ain't just solo no more, if it was solo" lol 👀 👀 I'd have said to her. And so kindly. genuinely 😋🙃

[comedy]

It would depend on factors like how open we are with each other, the reasons behind it, and how comfortable I feel with it. Open communication and mutual respect would be essential for navigating that situation.

[Asker]

thanks

[Anonymous]

It is an ‘OnlyFans account’ which would mean she isn’t actually doing it, doing so would be a model. This is simply using the site to watch p*rn.

Okay, I wouldn’t care. She can watch guys, gals do whatever type p*rn and it wouldn’t bother me as long as it stays as ‘p*rn content’. If she tried to cheat on me then there’s a problem.

[worldscolide]

Instant divorce. I would, while she was out, change the locks, and put all of her possessions and belongings on the front porch. Having an only fans account is cheating, end of story, end of discussions.

[Professor-college]

If I were lucky enough to marry a woman who looks hot enough and a beautiful to be in one of those accounts I would support her because that means she's willing to do all the diet exercise and effort to do something like that and I'm sure she would have a good idea on how to spend that money and invest it..

[molonski2]

If she just did it of her own accord and kept it a secret , extremely pissed off.

If it was planned together ( highly unlikely ) then thats fine.

[NicholasRedone]

@molonski2 sorry to hear the caveats in that :( not exactly what a lady may want to hear, from her man, to feel special 💕🙏🏻 just a perspective 🙃

[molonski2]

@NicholasRedone
Only fans does not work like that Nick , when I was doing girls from our club , I had ZERO problem with it , because they talked about it all the time , so was well aware.

If it was sneaking behind my back thats a different issue all together.

And yeah , knowing that guys were paying and jerking off while paying was a massive turn on in " part 1 " of my answer.

[NicholasRedone]

@molonski2 I'm surprised the asker limited it to OF because other sites like PornHub unless banned for paying subscribers now I thought you know, anyways. Unless some folks just like being amateur porn makers faceless for free you know for adoring fans lol attention seeking couples I guess shrug. And yes OF people either do it as a job or as a side hobby or as a side hustle job hobby lol 😆 to pay for whatever in life 🧬. Ah well.

[NicholasRedone]

I just hope people are always mindful of tax laws in their respectives countries

[molonski2]

@NicholasRedone
Or dont get caught Nick ( hard on OF ) ALL documented..

Dont think they'd declare it here.

I did help a seasoned stripper get a house loan.

[Phoenix98]

She'd either get rid of it or she'd be without a husband. No in-between.

[NicholasRedone]

@Phoenix98 polar opposite me : I'd be her cheerleader and her pal - I'd even star - it sure would best the solo stuff she'd been pumping out 😁😜

[NicholasRedone]

@Phoenix98 like that famous divorce lawyer in USA says Sexton "when you stop cheering for your partner - that's divorce"

[Phoenix98]

Well I have an issue with being married to a prostitute.

[Oldschool1981]

I once dated a prostitute and had no problem

[NicholasRedone]

@Oldschool1981 means a lot to hear a man say this. If I may say so. 😀🥳

[DrPepper12]

If we discussed & planned it together with ground rules why not?

[nawtee_me]

The real question might be why if you have a wife are you on Onlyfans looking around to find your wife there?

[Anonymous]

I have strict rules. My beliefs are pure and with good morals. i have christian values. I would never marry such a person who believes in degeneracy. Never ever ever, the mother of my future kids will be a good woman. With class and a heart of gold.

[Petermorgan343434]

Divorce plain and simple. Infidelity clear cut and dry.

[daddy]

I'd be her first follower lol

[Bricealan]

Not at all. I would help her.

[Anonymous]

Surely, you would know that already.

[beams]

This is so crazy, I think I'd go crazy

[Wise4myage]

I think I’d divorce her.

[GAGsucksballs89170]

Think of, like crypto, is a pos

[RedInnocent69]

Do I get to help her make content?

[Nightmoon23]

Wouldn’t bother me any more money for us.