How can I get a girl to be comfortable with me over the phone?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

It depends on what your intentions are and what you want from this girl.

You may have a reputation that makes her be uncomfortable when talking to you or you may want things from her that she is not willing to give you. Apparently, you want her to be comfortable physically with you as well which leads me to believe that you may have ultimate intentions that she is not comfortable with.

If she is not comfortable to start with, it is going to be difficult to make her change her mind and your best option is probably to give her space because she is not really ready to lower her guard.

[Asker]

She’s neither comfortable or uncomfortable with me. Just neutral
But I want her to be comfortable

[SueShe]

Reading that you intend to fornicate with her as your ultimate intention is a sure reason to be insecure about the outcome.

[Abbycado]

Depends on the girl. That’s really vague. Why just on the phone?

[Asker]

Not just necessarily on the phone , also physically too

[Abbycado]

Well, I mean you can just talk and get to know her likes. She will get to know yours.

It really depends on the girl. We don’t come from a cookie cutter.

[Avicenna]

Who is she and why are you two talking on the phone?

[Asker]

She’s an acquaintance that I really want to get intimate with

[Avicenna]

Dies she prefer texting?

[Asker]

I don't know if she prefers texting but I’ll ask her
And then we actually plan on meeting up

[princeofromance]

Just be yourself and don't say anything creepy.

[Nikki1989]

Why the phone?

[Asker]

Not only on the phone, physically too