Women assume I’m only into tall women. I am NOT!! why is this keep happening?

[6ft3_BigDude]

I’m 6’3 (190cm) and I weight 230lbs (105kg).
I’m ONLY attracted to SHORT petite sweet pretty women, so why every time I approach one at the bar or at the cafe, they ALL seem at first terrified? and then, they’re completely shocked and surprised I’m into them? They all keep saying the same thing:
“You’re so tall! I thought you might be more into tall women!” NO, all my ex girlfriend were not taller than 5’3!!
I always love to hold them and make them feel protected, loved and sexually wanted.
So why is this a big surprise? Isn’t it really abnormal for a tall man to be into short women?

Yes! It’s weird!

No! It’s hot!

[_Maya_]

It doesn't. This is only in your head. You see.. the onl6 reason you posted this question was to post these pictures which I'm most unimpressed by. It makes you look vain and the fact that you try to hide that behind a veil of even more vain reasons is even worse. It's rather pathetic to look at oneself with such self admiration but you do it with such gusto. You seem to need attention and seek it. Perhaps the next time you are in the gym you can talk to yourself in the mirror. The only problem with that is the guy you talk to will only ve as intelligent as the one talking to him. That's the vibe I get from you. All vanity and no real substance so to speak

[6ft3_BigDude]

I get that, perhaps instead the judging the new guy that just arrived in the block you should go and read my first answer I gave to a girl which was concerned about falling for same selfish mindless guy once again. I do appreciate your feedback, being a vain is not a crime as far as I’m aware of. I know unfortunately people love to judge a book by the cover and the first impression is made in the human brain within 30 seconds by seeing someone, but having muscles and being into fitness I can highly guarantee you, it won’t impact your ability to have a brain or having an interesting life story. I can reassure you that the average “buff dude” at the gym in the uk is intelligent, well educated, down to earth and he’s capable to feel emotions, caring, empathy and respect for both men and women. I simply added pics of myself to give and idea on what I look like and simply having a honest opinion on the reasons behind it, not for vain reasons, if I wanted to boost my ego I don’t need to use a social platform where women are shredding apart men because they try to be themselves. I decided to look in the way I do to achieve optimal sexual dimorphism and make myself more attractive for women, I know not all women are the same and they’re definitely much complicated intellectually and emotionally compared to men as it comes down to evolutionary biology and sexual reproduction, but it is true on a basic level regarding sexual behaviour and attraction, that heterosexual women are (generally speaking) more inclined to a man with a high level of sexual dimorphism when comes to a simple shag and more inclined to a man with a lower one when comes to long relationship and marriage. By the way, when a woman calls a man vain because he loves going to the gym and trying to look at his best, makes me smile. Who’s on average the highest buyer of skincare products? Who’s on average does wear makeup? Who’s on average cares more about their appearance? Thank you very much indeed.

[Valdemort]

Didn't know this was a dating profile, but... the more you know!

[Nikki1989]

Terrified of what?

No offense, but these pics make you look like a total douche.

[6ft3_BigDude]

Hey Nikki, I do appreciate your feedback and I can’t deny that from a female perspective my pictures might make me look like a total “douche”, if you’re implying the common slang referring to a man which is arrogant, self-absorbed and very much focused on appearances only. I can assure you I’m far from it in my own personal experience and prospective. I do understand how women might perceive a man with high sexual dimorphism as a threat to their own biological system, as women are (surprisingly) much more territorial and possessing than men, which makes more sense as they have to, subconsciously speaking, make sure their partner is faithful and loyal, and by having a relationship with a male that exposes a higher level of sexual dimorphism is counterproductive as he’s more luckily to cheat and betrayed. As I already reply to the unjustified brutal and judgmental comment before yours, I simply uploaded pics to show what I look like. I do know how to smile, have fun, being funny, friendly, caring, loving and supportive, but obviously someone at the cafe won’t see all these hidden attributes at first and what they would see is, well, what you see in my pics as I don’t smile 24/7. I do understand your point of view and appreciate your short by yet straight to the point feedback. Just remember that assuming I’m “a douche” because I like fitness and try to look good in my pics, it’s like when men see your profile picture, wearing makeup, perfect eyebrows, perfectly positioned hair dropping on the side and making the typical “duck lips” (perhaps cause you want to achieve a high level of sexual dimorphism to look more attractive) and they call you a bitch for that. I won’t and I would say you look extremely pretty and I can see from your quick and sharp answer you have a good heart and sensitivity nature, perhaps hurt in the past by “a douche” and your personal past simply clouded your judgement on future partners. Thank you once again. 👍🏼

[Abbycado]

Lol, why the pics to ask the question? XD