Friendship with girl best friend one sided?

[Anonymous]

My friendship with this shy girl seems one sided to me. I am pretty much always the one to text first and she doesn't usually keep the conversation going. Every time we have hung out outside of college, I have been the one to organise it. She has tossed around some of the ideas for activities we have done but I am the one who always asks her "Hey, would you be keen to do [activity] next week." It is a little frustrating because she is not giving me an indication of interest or how much she wants to hang out, but whenever I do ask she always says yes and I can tell she has a good time. I think it could be due to her shyness. Should I try initiating activities more often? I like her a lot and want to maintain our friendship but also do not want to be overbearing and keep suggesting things when she doesn't put a lot of effort in herself to catch up. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

So are you really seeking a friendship or trying to turn it into something more? Because your efforts to engage make it look like you’re trying go get closer, even going as far as to call her your female best friend when none of this may be reciprocated on the same level. She may be cool with you but trying to keep her distance so that you don’t get the wrong impression, and also see that she isn’t trying to build up your connection. Just because it works for you doesn’t mean it works for her.

[Anonymous]

One-sided is never a good thing.

[In_Trance]

it is one sided