Would you say it's a good sign if a girl doesn't want to talk to you about other guys she's talking to?

[Anonymous]

Met a girl few months ago, we were inching closer to date but didn't due to her ex coming back into the picture. He's since left the picture again, we did talk about it and said that we'll keep that door open though.

We kept as loose friends for the most part but occasionally flirting, she's been very quiet for the last few weeks but a mutual friend said it's just a ongoing situation hinting about a guy, we spoke briefly earlier asked if she's okay and she said "If only i could tell you but I can't"

[_Maya_]

Leave the door open for what? The ex or you? I don't think this is a good idea. She is obviously weighing her options and won't commit to you. Plus an ex that keeps popping in and out of the picture is never good. Do you think that if you get in a relationship with this girl that the ex won't "pop" back in the picture again? I think there is enough evidence here to move on. If she really wanted to be with you and you were the number one choice then all this other stuff wouldn't be happening. She wouldn't be talking to other guys... ex or otherwise. She would be all about you. Do you want to get into a relationship knowing that you might have been the second or even third choice that she settled for?

[HungTexan]

A little discretion is a good thing sometimes.