Is there a polite way of asking a guy not to talk about other girls while we are hanging out without seeming jealous?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Wht do you think I want to hear about other woman⁉️ I tell you this, it does not make me jealous…. I get disrespected enough at work. 💪💪…F’in immature child-is optional

[chicosuave]

Humm it depends. If you're dating then it makes sense why you said that but it does make you insecure. But if you're not dating, then I think you're going over board. You are only friends

[GreatnessBack]

Yes.

"Could you please not talk about other girls while we are hanging out?"

Also, are you two dating? Because if not, then you have a decision to make.

[Asker]

We are not exclusive. I thought we were just going with the flow. Having fun. Whatever happens. Happens. I haven’t pushed anything. But sometimes I get the impression that he says things to try to get a reaction from me. So I try either not to react or give him the reaction he wants. This whole situation is weird. I’ve never had to deal with anything like this before. I’m not sure if that makes since.

[GreatnessBack]

Yeah, luv, I got no time for BS.
Either figure what you want before someone else does it for you. Your age says 36-45, there is no going with the flow. Ain't nobody got time for that.
Whether you want something serious, friends with benefits or FB, be clear, before he finds a woman who is.