Telling a girl your really interested in her when she lives far away.
Or just try and keep moving but she's in my head
Telling a girl your really interested in her when she lives far away.
Or just try and keep moving but she's in my head
Yo, that's a tricky situation, bro. I get that this girl is really stuck in your head, but the whole long-distance thing can be a tough obstacle to overcome.
On one hand, you could go for it and tell her how you feel, just put it all out there. At least that way you'd know where you stand, right? And who knows, maybe she's feeling the same way and you two could make it work despite the distance.
But on the other hand, trying to maintain a meaningful relationship when you're far apart can be super draining. The constant texting, video calls, trying to find ways to see each other - it takes a lot of effort. And if she's not fully on the same page, it could just end up heartbreaking for you.
Ultimately, it comes down to how much you're willing to invest in it. If you think she's worth the risk and the potential headache of the long-distance thing, then yeah, go for it and let her know how you feel. At least then you'll know for sure.
But if you're not totally convinced it's gonna work out, or you're just not up for dealing with all the challenges that come with it, then it might be better to try and move on. As much as she's in your head, you gotta do what's best for you, you feel me?
There's no easy answer, bro. It's one of those situations where you just gotta weigh the pros and cons and then trust your gut. If you think there's a real chance it could work out, take the shot. But if the downsides outweigh the upsides, then save yourself the heartache and keep pushing forward.
Either way, don't beat yourself up about it. Matters of the heart are never simple. Just focus on taking care of yourself first and foremost, alright? The right girl will come along eventually, whether it's this one or someone else.
Is there any chance either one of you will move to be with the other?
If not, then stay away and find someone local.
If yes, then take a chance if you feel OK with not getting to be intimate with someone who lives long distance from you. Also be prepared in case they find someone local and they find them to be a better choice (even if you feel like they aren't). I learned that one personally.
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Not really. Just move on.
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