Girls, Would you live in farm house with your husband's family after wedding?

[KITEinStorm]

If you had to due to financial difficulties, would you move into your husband's family's farm house and live with them?

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Please write your answer under economic necessity.

[Anonymous]

You would have to decide whether it's worth it before you got married. I wouldn't do that unless we had our own place, even if it was just a small studio apartment.

[red-lipstick-girl]

No, I would never experience this. My sister made such a mistake and is currently having problems with her mother-in-law. I will not go after her.

[MemeSupreme]

yeah as long as his family isn't toxic as hell
and i'm not too far away from my job

i think my OCD would be getting triggered a lot but i'd deal with it if there's nothing else to do (it'd be extremely annoying tho)

[Anonymous]

lol , am marrying him. Not his family. It’s extremely weird

[KITEinStorm]

I guess, you didn't read the reason for the financial difficulties (?)

[chocolatetwopointo]

hell no

[KITEinStorm]

It was a question about in financial problems. Since you said no, is divorce the solution for you? Because another house is not possible in this question.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes, i would never live on a farm let alone with somebody elses family

[KITEinStorm]

"somebody elses family", Isn't this statement unfair to your husband?

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is it? its HIS family, not mine.

[KITEinStorm]

I think you are against the idea of having a big family.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what does having a big family have to do with this? its still HIS part of the family. not mine.

[KITEinStorm]

If you accept yourself as a new member of that family, you will be included in the big family. They will also accept you as a new member of the family. What is strange about that?

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok then i won't. i moved out from my parents so i won't have to be with a family and i dont want a big family. idc if they accept me, we can see eachother on holidays otherwise i dont want to see you. u do u, but i can't deal living with so many people my whole life

[KITEinStorm]

@chocolatetwopointo , I understand. Thank you for expressing your opinion clearly.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no problem