Why do guys exhale deeply when they see an attractive woman on tv?

[Anonymous]

When I'm watching a movie with my man, I always try to make him feel good. I always give him back rubs, kisses, and just make him feel good becuase I want him to be happy. I've noticed when an attractive female is on TV he exhales deeply especially if she's sexy or in lingere or something to that affect. He also sometimes distracts himself by doing something else. I wish I could capture his attention like that, that would be awesome. But, why do guys do that?

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yeah, I'm glad he doesn't do that, I mean, I am right there lol. but I still want to know why they do that. honestly, what I would like is for him to look at me and be happy I'm with him and kiss me or hell, we can get it on if he's horny! lmao. but what us girls want in our minds don't usually happen lol.

[MrOracle]

His mind is filled with a momentary burst of lust and sexual attraction. It means he is a healthy, normal man.

You need to realize this: men are genetically programmed to be sexually attracted to a whole variety of different women. It was required for the survival of the species, and those instincts haven't gone anywhere.

But he has CHOSEN to be with you, and not with other women. He doesn't go out and bang other girls, because he loves you. And he has sex with you because he desires you. He isn't trying to get to know the girls on TV, or even meet them or talk to them. But he can't help the part of him that gets turned on when he sees them. It's part of being a man.

It has nothing to do with the way you look. Look at all of the famous guys who had amazingly beautiful women, and still cheated on them, often with LESS attractive women. Why did that happen? Because those other women were DIFFERENT, and men are programmed to want variation. Your husband occasionally wants to look at a DIFFERENT hot girl besides the hot girl he already has (you). If you were tall, thin, and blond, maybe he'd want short and brunette, or red head and curvy. But they are just images to him that satisfy his need for variation. Most guys can satisfy that need with images (sexy women on TV, or even outright p*rn), and thus don't feel an urge to cheat in order to satisfy those instincts.

Take away a man's outlet for his instincts, and you're going to drive him to lie and cheat on you eventually.

Ask yourself this: would you rather he looked at a hot girl and sighing, or even watching p*rn when you're right there in the room or otherwise have full knowledge, or be hitting on women behind your back? Because for most men, if it isn't one, then, eventually, it's going to be the other.

Why do you think history is so full of mistresses and "other women"?

[ZeusBear]

is he hardcore staring at her when he exhales? or does he look exhale and then distracts himself?

[Asker]

well depends on what's going on. if the girl is in lingere, he will stare deeply but only exhale once or whatever. When its just a sexy girl maybe showing her boobs a little, its an exhale and look away doing something to distract himself...

[ZeusBear]

the lingere could be a turn on, and the staring and exhale would be part of the sex drive revving up a bit lol... but if he looks away he seems to care what you think of him looking at other women... he doesn;t wanna look at any other woman and p*ss you off so he does ther things to occupy his mind until the sexy lady other than his own goes away =P

[Asker]

so I should try to do something sexy if I want his attention at that point? lol or would that be awkward and he wouldn't like that? lol

[lovelylife]

Don't you like to look at men? I think it's natural and and only T.V.

[Asker]

i have him. he's all I've ever wanted so I don't care what's on tv. really. and I don't exhale and make it obvious. I just want to know why that happens. why the exhale.?

[Asker]

makes me think he's dissapointed I don't look like that, but I know that's just my female mind taking things personally. I know I know.

[lovelylife]

It's just T.V. I think your being insecure. He shouldn't have to look away to distract himself from looking. He knows you are watching he's every move that's why he feels the need to distract himself.

[Anonymous]

I usually just pull it out and start masturbating so an exhale isn't that bad.

[Asker]

yeah, I'm glad he doesn't do that, I mean, I am right there lol. but I still want to know why they do that. honestly, what I would like is for him to look at me and be happy I'm with him and kiss me or hell, we can get it on if he's horny! lmao. but what us girls want in our minds don't usually happen lol.

[Asker]

lol that's funny though :)

[Opinion Owner]

I was just kidding, trying to make you laugh.

[Asker]

lol