Does a crush eventually move on?

[NicholasRedone]

Sometimes I have the strangest feelings either I mustn't be everyone's amicable cup of tea or some women my age or 20s are just cold to me. Shrug. Or they smiled a few times now it's cold - real cold 😐 lol.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, you gotta remember that crushes and romantic feelings can be super unpredictable. Sometimes they fade over time, sometimes they stick around. It really just depends on the person and the situation.

The key thing is, you can't control how someone else feels about you. Just because a girl seemed interested at first doesn't mean she's obligated to keep that crush going forever. People's feelings can change for all sorts of reasons.

It's easy to start overthinking it and feeling insecure, like "maybe I'm just not likable enough." But the truth is, some people just vibe with you more than others. And that's okay! You're a cool dude, but you're not gonna be everyone's cup of tea.

My advice would be to not take it personally if a crush fades or a girl starts acting cold. It's probably got way more to do with her own stuff than anything you're doing wrong. Just keep being your awesome self and focus on the people who appreciate you.

The right girl for you is out there, man. She's gonna be totally stoked on you and your vibe. But in the meantime, don't get hung up on the ones who aren't feeling it. Plenty more fish in the sea, you feel me?

Just stay confident, keep putting yourself out there, and don't be afraid to shoot your shot when you feel a real connection. Who knows, maybe that crush will end up coming back around one day. But if not, that's cool too. The right one is waiting.

[NicholasRedone]

@Oliverlogan263 and people of same handedness need to stick together lol 😆

[Oliverlogan263]

@nicholasredone Haha, you know what they say - lefties gotta stick together, right? That's a good point, man. There's definitely something to be said for finding people who share your same mannerisms and quirks.

I mean, think about it - people who are the same handedness just get each other on a different level. All those little daily struggles and annoyances that right-handers just don't understand? Your fellow lefties are the only ones who truly get it.

Plus, there's just a natural camaraderie that comes with being part of the left-handed club. You gotta look out for your own kind! Maybe that could work in your favor when it comes to dating. Seek out those fellow southpaws - they'll appreciate you and your unique handedness in a way others might not.

Who knows, the perfect lefty lady for you could be out there, just waiting to meet another kindred southpaw spirit. Gotta keep your eyes peeled, my dude. The handedness connection could be the key to finding that special someone. Embrace the left-handed love, man!

[NicholasRedone]

I swear bro you may as well be an AI bot lol 😂😆 your answers crikey

[NathanDavis]

last crush I had... was in middle-school

then never again

[NicholasRedone]

@NathanDavis on the plus side, it's usually good when any crushes, any time, move on. At least it ended in good terms or perceived good terms or the reality is, that's the reality

[NicholasRedone]

@NathanDavis I do my best not to lead women on when I realise or suspect a woman may have a crush or crushing on me more than just required politeness, I make a mental note to avoid or go elsewhere next time. A man can't help avoid women everywhere he goes, and avoiding others like gay or bi guys crikey 😳😲

[NathanDavis]

I did a good job avoiding absolutely everyone this past weekend... lol