At what point do I leave?

[Anonymous]

Well I don’t know what to do. I guess I’m a “I can change him” girl. Been together for 2 years and it’s getting worse, I can’t argue with him or he turns around and says that’s not the point. I can’t bring anything up because it’s in the past? This only happened today I got a shitty apology and suddenly it’s all my fault again. I don't know what to do he lives with me I can’t kick him out because he’ll lose his job as he has no housing. I cook and do all the washing everything I can and try be so nice and patient but I’m always at fault.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Ummm…if you said those things, it is a bit much.

What I will tell you, though, is that you can’t change a man.

[Asker]

Sorry no, he said it. I should of been more specific haha

[SweetJoyGirl]

He did?
Leave him.

[chocolatetwopointo]

leave. but why are u 30-35 and talking on snapchat?

[orange_roach]

I have Snapchat and I’m 32. You got a problem with that?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes thats weird as fuck

[orange_roach]

Cry about it 🤷‍♀️

[chocolatetwopointo]

why would i? ur the one offended enough to reply to my comment like a ”badass”

[orange_roach]

Why do you care if someone my age or older has Snapchat?

[chocolatetwopointo]

idc if u have snapchat, but if ur 30 and talk with ur partner on there? is that not weird to u? like r u that immature u have to talk on an app for kids? like grow up and text like normal adults

[orange_roach]

How about stop being a cunt? Ever thought of doing that? And Snapchat isn’t for kids.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao💀 i think i hit a nerve there. does mommy not let u use normal texting apps and u can only use snapchat?

[chocolatetwopointo]

and by the way ur 32 arguing with somebody half ur age about why you should have snapchat. let that sink in.

[orange_roach]

Here’s the thing: I’ve seen you around here. You’re nothing but a miserable little girl. And little girls like you act all tough behind screen but cowards in real life. Wait until you mess with the wrong person one day and that’ll teach you to stop running your mouth.
Also, it sounds like you need major therapy.

[orange_roach]

Someone your age should enjoy life and not worry about what others do. You’re just a kid who hasn’t experience life yet. And yet you’re wasting your time being a bully online. If that doesn’t scream pathetic, I don’t know what does.
Maybe you’re going through something I don’t know. If so, you need to fix it ASAP.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nah im not miserable, im pretty happy tbh. now ur sending death threaths bc i said ur too old for snapchat?💀 thats crazy. why would i need therapy? ur the one getting offended by a 16 yr old calling u weird💀

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont worry, i judge. like every other teen. LMAO UR SO OFFENDED THIS IS HILAROUS. honey, im not going through anything but its pretty obvious that u do, no normal person gets this offended

[orange_roach]

Actually, I take being weird as a compliment. So thank you 😊

[chocolatetwopointo]

uhm ok so why r u so offended rn?

[orange_roach]

Actually, it’s more like sticking up for people. You care way too much about what people do. And, if you think about it, majority of the world is on Snapchat. So good luck judging billions of people of all ages being on there.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah sure, but talking and arguing with ur partner on there as adults is weird.

[orange_roach]

Well, nothing you can do about it.
I’m more worried about her being mistreated than anything.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well i said leave🤷‍♀️ and i think we both know this is some fake bs.

[Asker]

To answer your question I’ve actually tried numerous times to text instead of communicating via Snapchat. But he insists on Snapchat text I don’t know why but I accepted it. I even deleted other social media’s cause I’m not the biggest fan. I’m also under 30 I don’t know why it says 30-35 I guess im not tech savvy

[Asker]

@orange_roach Thankyou! And I think anyone any age can use whatever they want. Who tf cares?

[chocolatetwopointo]

then he's not a man and even further reason to leave him. mhm righttt

[beefcakebradybatson]

Perhaps you can't change him, so seriously ponder splitting, lady !!!

[ProbablyClueless]

How are you still there? You should have left a long time ago.

[orange_roach]

Well, if he loses his job oh well. If he hates you, then kick him out. If he’s homeless, not your problem 🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Leave him as soon as possible and elope with me 😊

[orange_roach]

That’s not creepy at all

[Anonymous]

Kick him out, it is not your responsibility to make sure he keeps his job.