When is the time to leave a relationship?

[bjork]

How do you know that the relationship is over and it is time to leave?

[abby1980]

Break ups are not easy and all but if you feel like you need to leave, maybe it is better for you. Consider this factors.

Consistent Unhappiness: If you find yourself feeling unhappy more often than not, and the relationship feels more like a source of stress than comfort, it might be a sign. Relationships definitely have their ups and downs, but the good should outweigh the bad.
Values and Goals Divergence: Over time, people change, and so do their goals and values. If you've realized that you and your partner's futures don't align, and compromises can't be made or are one-sided, it could be a reason to rethink the relationship.
Lack of Trust: Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. If there's been betrayal, like infidelity, that you can't move past, or if you constantly feel the need to monitor your partner's actions, it's a red flag.
Abuse of Any Kind: This is non-negotiable. If there is any kind of abuse, just leave it immediately.
You've Grown Apart: Sometimes, there isn't a dramatic reason. People simply grow apart. If you feel like you're no longer compatible, or if you've both changed in ways that mean you're no longer happy together, it's okay to acknowledge that.
Efforts to Improve Things Haven't Worked: If you've tried counseling, talking things out, taking breaks, and making other efforts to improve your relationship, but things haven't gotten better, it might be time to consider parting ways.
You're Staying for the Wrong Reasons: Staying because you're afraid of being alone, worried about finances, or because you think it's better for the kids (if any) are signs you're in it for the wrong reasons.
You Fantasize About Being Single or With Someone Else: It's normal to have fleeting thoughts about what life might be like if you were single or with someone else. But if these thoughts become persistent and you're more excited about the idea of not being in your relationship than being in it, it's a signal.

Just be sure you have friends and family by your side.

[Mishupishu]

Deciding to leave a relationship is a personal choice and can depend on various factors. Some common reasons include lack of communication, trust issues, incompatible values, or feeling emotionally unfulfilled. It's important to assess whether the relationship is causing more harm than good, and if efforts to address issues have been unsuccessful. If you find your well-being consistently compromised, and there's no resolution in sight, it may be time to consider ending the relationship. Ultimately, trust your instincts and prioritize your emotional health.

[Finchie40]

When your partner constantly brings negative energy into your life , so when the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship , it’s best to end that relationship and move on , and realize you deserve happiness not constant misery. Just because you think you love someone , it doesn’t mean you have to be with that someone , life is too short to settle with someone that doesn’t really see eye to eye with you , No relationship is perfect , everyone goes through ups and downs , your partner should be by your side , not working against you. I was in a relationship with a girl that suffered from severe anxiety and depression , her anxiety and depression got worse and worse as time together went on , to the point I had no other choice but to leave her , She was very negative about everything , she didn’t want to work , she hated being in the world , she constantly compared her life to others , she was barely ever happy, She made me feel like I was constantly walking on egg shells not knowing what her mood was going to be each day , she was so back and fourth to the point I started feeling like I was going insane myself , I wasn’t smiling like I use to so I knew I had to get away for my own sanity I had to even though I cared about her and still loved her , I couldn’t tolerate the negativity she was constantly bringing into our lives. I was more a punching bag to her over anything, I had to let her go and realize I can’t be in a Relationship with someone that has that kind of negative mindset. So if your partner is causing you more bad than good , it’s best for you to end it and move on , and realize you deserve better than that shit.

[molonski2]

Have been though exactly as you described " walking on egg shells " is how I always put it too.
No matter how good they may look , in this situation cut clean and get out ! Life is too short for that.

[Finchie40]

Yea it’s nothing but stress being with someone that has that kind of negative mindset , they are barely ever happy and pretty much point fingers at you for their unhappiness , my ex would say she was mean to me because she loved me , I laughed and said well that’s a great way of loving someone , be constantly mean to them , I said go find yourself another punching bag because that’s not the relationship I want to be in , I rather be single then put up with that nonsense

[Anonymous]

Men don't deserve your love. You should him. All men are pigs and disgusting. They are awful people. He doesn't deserve you.

[Pinay_ako]

When you’re feeling more alone being in one. So be single.

[Katebfun]

If the person your with does not love you like you love yourself or more then leave. Your intuition usually knows the path, but your EGO keeps you stuck because the ego does not like change and pain. If your asking hee, TBH it's probally a sign to jump ship. Your still young.

[Katebfun]

You sometimes have to love yourself more then the person who may not be treating you as you wish

[DizzyDesii]

I always extend that shit more than i should so hell if i know

[exitseven]

It is said that the world will not end with a bang, but with a whimper. It is just like that

[Yannae]

When being single is better and nothing's gonna change.

[art84]

When you and your partner don't see eye to eye and drift apart from one another.

[Minahh]

When they are not making you feel better about yourself but worse

[whistlingwh0res]

now it's the time. leave before he gets a chance to hurt you physically

[Anonymous]

When you find yourself constantly arguing over every little thing.

[TenderFantasy]

Physical and emotional abuse (constant).

[LiamJHayden]

When you are sure it will not work.

[Pterodon]

When the bad outweighs the good

[laly520]

once they cheat