Why do narcissistic women expect a man to play the role of a man but when it comes to any of her own roles it’s “I ain’t your mama” ?

[Anonymous]

Do narcissists never realize that relationships work both ways? That people who have a lot to offer want someone who also offers them something? If they wonder why they only get desperate men maybe it’s because…. Men who have everything going for them don’t NEED someone else. They simply want someone if they can add to their life not just take away from.

Trust me. I call the men out here too on things where I’m called a girl on a blue account, a SIMP, and a white knight. But when I call the women narcissists I’m a sexist somehow. Even though I’m not talking about the majority of women out there. If you think you’re every woman out there you have delusions of grandeur.

A lot of times though. Narcissistic women have a laundry list of things they expect from a man. But if a man expects anything from her all the sudden it’s. You’re sexist! Or it’s IM NOT YOUR MAMA! Things like that.

What does a man who has a lot to offer get out of that? And don’t these men have s lot of options? Sure maybe some players who want to use someone for sex will use someone for sex. But the other extreme is men who are just desperate and losers themselves. I just can’t feel bad because like attracts like

[Anonymous]

Enjoy your internet meltdown?

[Asker]

Did something trigger you? Maybe you should search your heart and figure out what’s triggering you. Because I assume if I could see into your account. Your messages. Your posts including your anonymous ones.

I would see a lot of meltdowns and temper tantrums.

[Asker]

So please. Figure out what’s so wrong inside that this triggered something. As well as posted a non answer

[Asker]

I think maybe you feel this way and are either alone or in a relationship you’re not happy in. If you think men are just there to do everything for you but you don’t have to contribute anything in return.

You will notice these extremes in men. Where one extreme are men who maybe have something going for them but are players…. Don’t worry because they will reap what they sow later on in life.

But at the same time missy. The other extreme are just desperate men. Who have nothing to offer. Who need a relationship.

Men who have a lot to offer don’t need a woman just like a woman who has a lot to offer genuinely doesn’t need a man either. But they want companionship. Emotional support and a genuine connection.

They want someone who equally enriches their lives a best friend. Not someone who only takes from them. You can only sting someone along so long until they say

“You know what? What does this person even offer me? There are plenty of people with A lot more to offer…. Then this….. therefore I’m just going to find someone else”

[Asker]

There are plenty of male losers as well who sure have very little to offer but hate women and assume all women are like you. Because that’s the women they get used by…. Until they get discarded.

A lot of people deserve one another. A lot of people who are narcissistic have double standards. They are VERY entitled but at the same time get pissed off when someone expects anything from them.

Such as how narcissistic men sleep with losers and whores. But want a woman whose a virgin. Like that’s not gonnna happen no decent woman wants that…. You may find women who pretend to be something they’re not. But that’s about it.