Just okay and suddenly getting better?

[BiHubbyFlor]

Wife has always just been okay and some things and recently she just got better less worrying about being perfect.

Has she been watching me making a point to improve or has she just done it enough times to be better and not worry she is doing it perfect?

Nothing has really changed at home or work which has me surprised by this change.

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1 y

What would have changed to make her better? What would she have done to just get better so fast?

[Summeroflove]

Better in what ways? If she’s all the sudden looking better outside the home this is questionable….. It could be innocent enough but if you see a woman’s looks all the sudden improve and it doesn’t seem like it’s for you. It could mean either she’s found someone else or is putting herself out there…. So be careful of that.

With that being said, that is by no means always the case. Maybe she is just trying to be a better version of herself. But I would take note of things and start looking for other yellow and red flags.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Thanks but it's not looking better outside. Thankfully though she has gotten more passionate and more verbally caring.

Maybe she had a girl's talk and realized she has been lazy showing affection back?

[Summeroflove]

Okay that is a good sign. But it could be just talk to her and ask her what’s going on. But also be aware of over compensating as well.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Probably will just kinda enjoying it and don't want to accidently hurt her feelings.
Compensating for?

[Summeroflove]

I’m NOT saying that’s what she’s doing. I’m just saying sometimes it’s a yellow flag when people seem to be overcompensating. Because while yes it could be a very positive thing. It can also signal something is going on that she’s sort of covering up by over compensating

[BiHubbyFlor]

Got it and yes it could be something like that.

[Summeroflove]

Just pay attention and communicate with her that you noticed how she’s been and you appreciate it bjr do look for other red flags

[IslaTheWitch]

for some changes to take effect time is needed :D

appreciate her hard work and enjoy

[BiHubbyFlor]

Thanks and I appreciate the work it just seems like a sudden change less gradual

[IslaTheWitch]

@bihubbyflor not everything happens gradually... some changes must be accepted, then they click...

[EmmaMary]

I bet you wish that was your wife... Google Search.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Why would I ever share my wife on a site? Na my wife is way more pretty and sweet.

[EmmaMary]

So why use a simple commercial picture then?

[BiHubbyFlor]

Cause the site wants me to? Not sharing my wife and it wanted a picture.

[Nikki1989]

What does that picture have to do with anything?

[BiHubbyFlor]

Nothing absolutely nothing. Gag wanted one so I placed one.

[Abbycado]

What are we suppose to answer here?

[BiHubbyFlor]

Sorry new to the site! what would have changed to make her suddenly better? In your opinion?

[Abbycado]

No worries. It is impossible to know for sure. Only she does. It could be something as simple as self reflection and taking it upon herself to improve.

Could be outside motivation seeing friends or family change. Hard to say.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Thanks it is hard and confusing for me. I'd like to help her get better at other stuff but she is still amazing no matter what.

[EmmaMary]

@Abbycado

I sincerely hope you've already realised that's Not his "wife" in the picture. xx

[Abbycado]

@EmmaMary Oh I figured it wasn't. Figured it was one ripped off the far corners of the inter webs.

[EmmaMary]

@Abbycado

Precisely right. xxx

[BiHubbyFlor]

@EmmaMary your so hung up on the picture! Why would any one even think it's my wife? Pretty obvious 😂

[EmmaMary]

@bihubbyflor

Then why put it up in the first place? It amounts to nothing less than totally misleading.

[BiHubbyFlor]

@EmmaMary misleading to what? Not asking Thier opinions on how pretty she is or look at this! It's hey come look at this question someone put in some effort!