How do some girls have men wrapped around their fingers?

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I never understood how some women do it? Is it her personality? The sex?

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

Sometimes it happens without any effort, some guys see what they want to see. I mentioned this a few weeks ago on a different topic, in college I kind of knew who was interested in me and sometimes I would take advantage of it by asking for a car ride to a store, or if I noticed some guys eating pizza I might say hello knowing they would offer me pizza, or things like that. I never said “if you give me a ride I will be your girlfriend” “if you feed me I will be your girlfriend” but I knew they liked me and would prob do favors for me if I asked. And I know other girls do the same. Who is to blame there or in fact is it even a bad thing? If a guy was giving me a ride despite me not offering anything in return, I guess he enjoyed that, and if he wanted more, well he had a chance to talk to me or persuade me. I think a lot of these types of situations are like that, like, wishful thinking or enjoying proximity or whatever.

As far as relationships, I had one where he was wrapped around my finger, I 100 percent ruled the roost, but then I had another relationship where the guy was completely in charge and I basically spoke when spoken to and did whatever he said, so that part can go both ways also. I don’t like it either way, it’s good for it to be balanced w both of you trying to make the other one happy. JMO!

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Confidence and charisma can be very attractive qualities. People who exude confidence often draw others to them. That usually has a lot to do with it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No it’s the fact that these men are weak. A lot of the men that are wrapped around her finger want her, whether sexually or for a relationship. So these simple minded idiots do whatever she wants thinking it’ll elevate his standing w her, that maybe one day she will realize how good of a man he is that she will give him a chance. The only time that ever delay happens is when she’s gotten knocked up, her man left her, she’s divorced, now most men don’t want her so she’s willing to give that man a chance now. If women didn’t have tits or an ass most men wouldn’t do the things we do for women.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Because women aren't stupid. They have always been able to get what they wanted if they did it right. I'm not talking about self centered gold diggers.

One of my favorite movies is "Life With Father" (1947). He was bull headed and thought he was the king of the house. She knew how to get her way by manipulating him, but not in a shrewish or unloving way. She wasn't greedy or selfish. They were loving partners and adored each other.
She could baffle him.
It's a hilarious film. You ought to check it out.

Anonymous · Answer

It comes down by the rules they play by. Most good, decent women have certain rules they play by. Those women you speak of play by any means necessary. They're not in it to win that guy. 9 times out of 10 she's just sport hunting. Which means it's all just catch and release with her. She doesn't want the guy just his attention so whatever it takes to pique his interest that's what she'll do. She already knows she's not going to follow through on any of it.

Dargil · Answer

It's complicated and I have experienced it. It seems to be a combination Of withholding love and approval combined with occasional unrestrained, effusive sex. It absolutely is designed manipulation. The stick and the carrot.

Blunky · Answer

Because they're attractive. Could be the personality, could be the physicality. A mix of both is usually preferred.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Simps would wrap themselves around any finger as long as the finger belongs to someone with a vagina 💀

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Almost every girl can achieve this, men are very weak when it comes to a girl they are attracted to.

jahaims · Answer

Find a guy desperate for attention then give him attention

Anonymous · Answer

They use their booty power  If you have powerful booty , you also can lol 😂🤭

RedInnocent69 · Answer

It’s mostly the guy to be honest

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

They've got big boobs !!!

PaleDale · Answer

It's usually a dom-sub relationship

Anonymous · Answer

That's called pussy power 🙈

Danny_dan92 · Answer

They are desirable

Iron_Man · Answer

They just do

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