Why is she acting like this?

[Anonymous]

So I made a new friend 6 days ago she keeps telling me to break up w my boyfriend I can do better she always wants me go to her house or take her somewhere she wanted me to quit my job and work w her she has a boyfriend but I went to her house she was trying to undress in front of me and asked if it was ok I said no bc my boyfriend isn’t comfortable w it but she would seem mad if I tried to leave to b with my boyfriend I hung w her everyday but one time an said I can’t do anything bc of my boyfriend she always keept saying I didn’t like her an im like I always hang w you she would call me her bestie first time I met her it seemed like she was flirting w me but she has a dude so I ignored it she wanted me to bring my boyfriend she wanted us to b split up me with her him with her boyfriend they didn’t rlly talk but she said her boyfriend loves him an wants to hang with him weekend? My boyfriend said he didn’t get a good vibe from them an I just wanted a good friend I never meet someone like that an maybe want a idea of why they was being like that

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1 y

She also keept saying I could live w her

[MannMitAntworten]

There are some women who like their friends to be single when they are single and involved when they are involved. As times goes by you will realize that this sort of woman is a pain in the ass to have around and may even try to sabotage your relationship or at the very least cause friction between you and your boyfriend which she will use as evidence for you to break things off with him. I been down this path with someone I was seeing. It was so bad I ended. No one needs torment in their lives. Especially not through a potential meaningful pursuit.


I suggest choosing your boyfriend and cutting her off before she damages your relationship.

[OneViewpoint]

Wow, thanks for the window into a train wreck. I can't help you.

[Asker]

Yea ik I really liked her but it just seems crazy to want me there 24/7

[EmmaMary]

It would certainly help if you learnt how to use punctuation when composing a question. smh

[Asker]

Your right i didn’t even think about it i just wanted to know someone’s opinion asap

[EmmaMary]

Well first things first... Are you a lesbian yourself?

[Asker]

I don’t really have a label but I never told her my sexuality I’m unsure

[EmmaMary]

Well it's for you to decide whether you wish to be just a "friend"... Or as this other woman is implying to become her "soulmate"

Purely out of curiosity, just how old are you and this woman?

[Asker]

I’m 20 she is 25. she has a boyfriend an he is like 40. they want me to dump my boyfriend saying I can do better. she doesn’t have a car an always wants me to take her places. She even wants to get me things. I want her as a friend an I told her just that. An same said totally

[EmmaMary]

Hmmm... I seem to remember just a few months ago you stated you were seventeen.

[Asker]

It was plly about when I was 17 but no my bd is 12/23/2004

[Asker]

Maybe they were swingers?

[EmmaMary]

Well whatever direction you choose to go in, I wish you good luck and happiness.

[Asker]

Thank you I will always choose my boyfriend. it seems like she wanted to control manipulate me I want an actual friend not a girlfriend thank you for helping. I’m blocking her fr

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[dudeinohio]

Your friend wants to consume all your free time. She wants you around all the time.

You need to have a talk with her and lay down some ground rules.

[Asker]

Thank you she sent a pic the other day an it was of her boyfriend asleep an she was nude. I said why did you send that he? An she acted clueless my boyfriend even seen it 😭

[dudeinohio]

Maybe she wants a sexual relationship with ypu.