Why is she acting like this?

[MrRiverdale]

I used to like this chick I worked with and she liked me too. I ended up ruining things by giving her too much attention which turned her off. She strung me along for a bit i caught on to what she was doing decided to move on and stop giving her attention. At first she started ignoring me (which was fine ) but then she even got worse when she started trashing my locker ( I didn't know it was her at the time and only

realized when she quit ) A few weeks later she comes to buy things at the store and as I'm cashing out customers I can feel eyes on me she even comes closer to the register for me to see her then she stands to the side and stares at me. I ignore her and continue working

I don't understand how this woman hated me enough to trash my locker, ignore me and now she's staring at me trying to get my attention.

What does she want from me?

[Melinara]

Women's personalities are far more complex than what you can imagine. When they own something, they easily get bored of it and feel the need to make it seem valueless. But when they lose it, they realize they need it and that it's valuable and important for them. So, I believe that this girl now needs your attention again cause she realized she messed it up with you. However, I'd advice you not to reconcile with her again as it's almost evident she gonna repeat her bad actions in the future...

[dustybiker]

I’m guessing she has a very different view of the situation. Are you leaving any details out that would shine her in a more positive light?

[MrRiverdale]

nope If I added more details she'd look worse

[dustybiker]

That’s what I thought you would say. People who refuse to see another side will never understand why the other side behaves the way they do. You have to be open to having done something to warrant such behavior.

[MrRiverdale]

What makes you think I've done something because I'm a guy? So chasing down a woman who clearly isn't interested would have been better instead of moving on? You gals get mad at us when we continue to chase when you're not interested and when we get the hint and move on suddenly we're the bad guys or I've done something.

[Surely]

You took away her excitement of the pursuit. Now she is missing it and wants to get it back. If you care to allow her to pursue you again. Make sure you make it more difficult this time so you realize this benefits!

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO! Good luck!

[Iron_Man]

Very weird woman how did you give her so much attention did you take her to fancy dinners

[MrRiverdale]

Nah I just talked to her

[Iron_Man]

Oh I see

[Pinay_ako]

Coz she got dumped and she wants to test the waters with you and if you’re going to fall for it. I say DON’T! She’s bad news!