Girls, Would you pick butterflies over loyalty in a guy?

[Anonymous]

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By butterflies, I meant excitement or infatuation. Just curious how much that weighs against real commitment or loyalty for you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

butterflies last a few seconds, loyalty lasts a lifetime usually

[Angel_ica]

One loyal one for butterflies

[Asker]

Is that what you have now?

[Angel_ica]

One loyal many for butterflies now

[Asker]

Does the loyal one ever give you butterflies?

[Angel_ica]

Not the same kind

[Asker]

I get the appeal of butterflies, but trading loyalty for a quick thrill feels like giving up gold for glitter. A loyal guy doesn't deserve to be someone's backup while they chase sparks.

Don’t you think real excitement comes when it’s with someone who actually stays?

[Angel_ica]

My loyal man know I have other man for butterflies he is happy I am happy he not backup he main partner

[Asker]

If he were really your main, you wouldn’t need someone else to feel butterflies. Calling it happiness doesn’t change the fact that it’s unfair to someone who’s loyal to you.

[Angel_ica]

Not unfair he like it too

[Asker]

If he truly liked it, you wouldn’t need to justify it. Sometimes people accept things they’re not really okay with because they’re scared to lose someone. You say he’s your main, but needing others to feel something as simple as butterflies means neither of you are fully satisfied. That’s not fair to him, and deep down, it’s not fair to you either.

[itsannalee]

I pick a responsibility.

[Anonymous]

Airborne worms?

Unlikely.