Why do men need someone to take care of them?

[chocolatetwopointo]

they always say they want a woman who can nurture and take care of them, why?

[overlord337645]

I would say I dissagree that this applies to all men for me I want a girl who can fill the other half of me I dont have (What do I mean?) what I mean is I might be a great provider and cook but be terrible at cleaning if my wife or girl is ok with it I think we would work really well if she cleaned now I am not gonna force her to but I think couples should compliment eachother in the sense of household roles and personalities that way they can be happy then again I also can't speak for every guy either

[perryboy104400]

I 100% agree bro amen to that.

[AviatorTom]

We men don't NEED someone to take care of us, we're perfectly capable of taking care of ourselves. It's just nicer, and more fulfilling, when we have someone to help us.

I'm pretty sure most women feel the same way.

[chocolatetwopointo]

not really

[perryboy104400]

ok well you can't really be speaking for all women...

[chocolatetwopointo]

and u can't speak for all men..

[perryboy104400]

your dang right I can't but I can speak for a lot of them...

[chocolatetwopointo]

and i can speak for a lot of women then..

[perryboy104400]

sure.. sure.. whatever you say...

[chocolatetwopointo]

why wouldn't i be able to?

[perryboy104400]

because that is a stereotype and stereotypes are 80% false

[perryboy104400]

that's like if I said all blonde women are dumb or women just want money and they are ALL gold diggers

[chocolatetwopointo]

statistics say otherwise..

[perryboy104400]

yeah.. ok sure

[chocolatetwopointo]

99% of rapists r male..

[AviatorTom]

@chocolatetwopointo It's more like 80%, but more importantly that's less than 1% of the entire male population. Why are you so negative?

[perryboy104400]

dang... you got me there. but another true stereotype is that men are bigger than women

[perryboy104400]

because she is an internet troll

[chocolatetwopointo]

@AviatorTom and how do you know that?

[chocolatetwopointo]

@perryboy104400 whats ur point?

[perryboy104400]

in what world would that matter?

[perryboy104400]

which part

[chocolatetwopointo]

the stereotype thing

[perryboy104400]

I don't know I thought we were just naming true stereotypes

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[blackeagle007]

you're a riddler and a joker. Only here to make problems. It’s the generation of 2000 and younger that makes problems in society

[davidshaw]

@AviatorTom because she's a stupid bratty teenager, who knows no better 😂

[blackeagle007]

@davidshaw you’re not wrong on that

[alice55]

Majority do not and those that do are those whose mother are overbearing so they never got to learn how to be independent

[red-lipstick-girl]

The last person I talked to wanted me to look after him and cook and clean. Men are a joke, they are unbearable.

[blackeagle007]

Women are shallow and into themselves.

[perryboy104400]

not all men are the same. and if you hate us so much why are you on this platform? just become a lesbian or something because apparently that's ok now.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao i know offended males when i see them, this is hilarous

[perryboy104400]

lol I know Kamala supporters when I see them. this is hilarious

[perryboy104400]

Im sorry you dont get your electric school buses

[chocolatetwopointo]

hows trump being president going for u? ur friends got deported? u got ur cheaper groceries?

[perryboy104400]

no because all my friends have their green cards because their families have nothing to hide and they obeyed the law and yes I love getting my groceries cheaper and my gas cheaper

[perryboy104400]

the people who got deported are called illegals. ok? stay with me... now, the reason why they are illegals is because they are guilty for crimes that they or their families have committed. otherwise, they would have one.

[perryboy104400]

*they would have a green card*

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhmm. racist.

[perryboy104400]

again with the stereo types.

[perryboy104400]

not all illegals are Mexican. they can be any race. that's just common sense

[red-lipstick-girl]

@perryboy104400 I am not a lesbian, I am not looking for any man here, I am just telling the truth.

[SotiCoto]

That bit where you wrote "always". That is where you got it completely wrong.
You're talking about a sub-set of blokes. Not the entirety. There are no shortage of men who do not match that description at all... so it is basically worthless.

[chocolatetwopointo]

you’ll live.

[SotiCoto]

Unfortunately.

[perryboy104400]

stfu you prob voted for Kamala

[chocolatetwopointo]

u voted for trump?💀 hows that going for u?💀

[perryboy104400]

great actually

[perryboy104400]

thanks for asking I hope you don't mind my diesel ford f350 and my gas powered school bus that I bought

[chocolatetwopointo]

LMAO y'all r so fucked

[perryboy104400]

nope y'all are because last time I checked Kamala wants to open up all the borders and let in all of the illegals so that women get r@ped, people get killed, and our jobs get taken.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like you would care ab women geting raped.

[perryboy104400]

your dang right I do because it is a crime and the people who commit it are pure evil.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wanna know smth.. trumps a rapist.

[perryboy104400]

no he's not he's just trying to keep the country safe and actually do his job as a president

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao ur so brainwashed

[14gurlz2gagonit]

Yeah and women too? I mean you get paid the same and all that now, so what now is the problem?

You're stuck on some old ass 2010's arguments and that shit is burned out... go watch youtube.

[chocolatetwopointo]

never heard a woman say they need nurturing

[14gurlz2gagonit]

lolz

[perryboy104400]

haha someone who finally has some common sense. amen brother

[Kingofkings1992]

We don’t. Men don’t depend on women for their own survival in any way. Women actually do depend on men. Men are by far the more independent of the two genders. Once you get out into the real world, and actually experience an ounce of what’s it’s like to actually support yourself, then you can say things like that. But until then, zip it 🤐.

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhm riight.. then you’re clearly delusional

[perryboy104400]

no its you who's delusional. you have this stereotypical pov about guys and its actually hurtful and you don't even know what your talking about

[chocolatetwopointo]

i am tho. i probably know more than u.

[perryboy104400]

no because I'm actually a guy and your over her spitting out lies about men when you don't even have a clue what your talking bout

[chocolatetwopointo]

what am i lying ab exactly?

[perryboy104400]

that men are just such bad guys and all we want is a servant to cook and clean for us

[chocolatetwopointo]

i meann… wouldn't u want that in a girl?

[perryboy104400]

nope not really unless she wants to then I'm not gonna stop her but like the saying goes.. if you want something done right, then do it yourself.

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhmm

[Kingofkings1992]

@chocolatetwopointo kid, I have twice as much living experience as you do. You telling me that I’m delusional doesn’t affect me one bit

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay?

[perryboy104400]

facts

[MemeSupreme]

we're supposed to build each other up in a relationship

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym?

[MemeSupreme]

doing stuff for your partner and being a good influence to support them: that can mean holding them accountable, too

i'll be nurturing and take care of them as long as they do the same. like it's not a contest of who does more, but at least put in the EFFORT and care

[perryboy104400]

tf you mean wdym it doesn't get simpler than that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc its pointless, why get help if i can do it myself?

[MemeSupreme]

it's kinda hard to describe how much a relationship can impact you, so you'll just need to experience it to get it

not saying your opinion will change btww, but just your understanding of it

[chocolatetwopointo]

i think ill skip

[MemeSupreme]

alright lol

[perryboy104400]

so you talk to yourself? do you have an imaginary girlfriend because you hate men so much?

[chocolatetwopointo]

@perryboy104400 who r u talking to rn?

[perryboy104400]

you. you said you can comfort yourself

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah? why have someone else do it when i can do it myself? i dont want people to see me cry like that

[perryboy104400]

why? are you depressed?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? why would that mean im depressed?

[perryboy104400]

I don't know like y u cryin

[perryboy104400]

is it your bday because I noticed like 20 min ago it said you were 16 and now your 17.

[chocolatetwopointo]

everyone cries? i usually cry over school tho

[chocolatetwopointo]

it does? my birthday is in September so i probably put the wrong date

[perryboy104400]

hehe

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[perryboy104400]

I don't know I just tried to put lol but it said it was too short

[chocolatetwopointo]

what were u laughing at?

[strateguy632]

We don't, most guys are looking for a girlfriend not a mom. Maybe a few said that to you but not most men.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

In any relationship it's always taking care of each other.
To fullfill each other's need that's how codependency works isn't it so?

Nobody gives anything for free it's just what you want to see and choose to highlight.

[RavVid]

Huh? I have never said that. It is challenging to find one that is mostly nice.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then this isn't for u.

[RavVid]

OK. :)

[DonaldDarko]

Evolution, any men that weren't like that, didn't reproduce. Nature couldn't care less how it get's men and women together as long as they do.

[chocolatetwopointo]

whats that got to do with anything?

[DonaldDarko]

You don't know about evolution? You should have at lest a high school level understanding of it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i do. i meant the last part.

[DonaldDarko]

What it says, evolution is amoral. It cannot feel anything. If men wanting their mother like that gets the job done, then men like that will outbreed other less needy men.

[KateCrombie]

I think we all need someone to take care of us emotionally and mentally... i guess that's what relationship mean

[Reem12345reem]

basically male and female roles in a relationship, but there's a difference between taking care of him vs babying him

[Renegade_Sailor]

Because a good woman is a force multiplyer. She can take care of little things for us that take time so we can focus on our mission.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why can't u do it?

[Renegade_Sailor]

You fail to understand my response.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then explain better.

[Renegade_Sailor]

Kick rocks.

[chocolatetwopointo]

right.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

A common psychological phenomenon.

When people experience love they often begin to act like children.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well they’re not kids?

[TwoToTooTutu2]

No, but that doesn't stop us from doing it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[WhitneySnow]

Some men see women’s primary role as a nurturer and caregiver (and sometimes sex object)

[perryboy104400]

as a guy, I can disagree. men can indeed take care of ourselves but some guys will just let his girl take care of him so that she feels needed

[grega239]

You mean loved?

Because most men dont need anyone to do anything for them

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet they do

[grega239]

Then the men around you aren't men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not talking ab the ones around me

[Godihateyou]

There are no men around her. Thats why she hates them. Men can't stand the smell of cat piss

[chocolatetwopointo]

imagine being 43 years old being offended about what a teenage girl posts online

[Godihateyou]

Imagine being a teenager girl all alone, nobody loves her. Do what teenaged girls do and end it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao god ur obsessed with me💀

[Godihateyou]

I just respond to notifications. I don't care about you at all. It seems you are obsessed with me. As I just react.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao yeah, cus im the one commenting on all of ur questions..

[glennos89]

We are surviving when we are alone but we are thriving with a good woman on our side

[Silver158]

We don't need someone to take care of us but it is nice to have that. Sure it's the same for women

[chocolatetwopointo]

not really

[Silver158]

it's subjective.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok but like in what way? change ur diaper? wipe ur butt?

[Silver158]

more cook, clean gimmie a hug. and I'd do that same for her.

[chocolatetwopointo]

weird

[Silver158]

yes you are

[chocolatetwopointo]

says the one who needs to be taken care of like a baby

[Silver158]

what did the second part of my reply say?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i never said i needed it

[Silver158]

And I never said I was talking about you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then what was the point of saying you’ll do it to ur girlfriend?

[Silver158]

you're not my girlfriend dear.

[chocolatetwopointo]

question still stands.

[Silver158]

because I do

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao💀

[Silver158]

you're an idiot

[chocolatetwopointo]

riight

[Silver158]

hmmmm giving away that you're a narcissist

[chocolatetwopointo]

is that not obvious yet?

[Silver158]

was obvious from the start.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then it should be ”giving away” would it?

[chocolatetwopointo]

wouldn't*

[Silver158]

it would be yes.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okayy

[Silver158]

okay

[Fireguy17]

Because their parents never taught them to take care of themselves.

[Iron_Man]

man shall not be alone we need mothering and nurturing,

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[Iron_Man]

because everything is too much responsibility for one man we need helpers

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Iron_Man]

we need help help help

[chocolatetwopointo]

what responsebilitys can't u do?

[Iron_Man]

if you’re working full-time working out in the gym driving back-and-forth, you need to have a proper meal and have the house clean while you’re paying the bills so we need some help plus we need for you to get the groceries and cook it. It’s just too much for one man to do everything every day by himself.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and who says women dont do that?

[Iron_Man]

well, that’s good if they do it because they are well needed and also to be good communicator as to mentally stimulate us

[chocolatetwopointo]

r u dumb? women work too, women do ALL OF THAT too. why do MEN need help? r u that fucking weak?

[Iron_Man]

I thought you were being nice and you understood but now you come back here and you insult me they don’t work like us that’s for sure and they’re not paying for a house like I am so they can help out not get a free ride

[Iron_Man]

you’ve crossed the line with me and you have a very bad repetition here. I’m gonna do something about this.

[Iron_Man]

prove it to me how many women actually do that

[chocolatetwopointo]

what r u gonna do ab it?

[chocolatetwopointo]

couldnt handle everything being handled to u for a minute?

[blackeagle007]

Why do you post anti guy stuff. You need extracurricular activities

[truecrimelover1999]

I think it’s more about companionship and not feeling lonely

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont y'all have friends? family?

[wkhan_87]

All human are depends on each other, because we live in social atmosphere.

[Anonymous]

Are you talking the dudes who expect women to cook and clean for them? Like cater to their every need type guy?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah

[Opinion Owner]

I hate them

[Filthy_Immigrant]

not me, I dont need another mother

[MinaV]

Only mama boys want that

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I wonder who turns boys into mama's boys 🤔

[perryboy104400]

there is nothing wrong with being a mamas boy. it can also teach you how to treat women

[chocolatetwopointo]

LMAO

[perryboy104400]

tf you laughing about cat lady

[chocolatetwopointo]

”theres nothing wrong with being a mamas boy” HAHHAHA

[perryboy104400]

your just mad because your mom prob dumped you off at an orphanage when you were 9 and then once you tried to find her you found out she died from cancer

[perryboy104400]

I'm sorry for your loss

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope i have a very loving mom, she's right upstairs, awful ragebait, try harder next time🥱

[perryboy104400]

mine is right down the hallway

[chocolatetwopointo]

never said anything ab ur mom.

[perryboy104400]

I know I'm aware

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay👍

[Aakash_Hangargi]

This take never ends lol it's the same all over the world mothers want their kids to be mama's boys but then the girlfriend doesn't like it
And then when the girlfriend becomes mother she wants her son to be mama's boy and the circle continues.
To be honest it's just the ladies wanting to have hold on the men can chalk it under possessiveness also or attention seeking.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no thats js not true. do u think all men r mamas boys?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Haha just once you become a mother and If you remember this question you will know.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao i hate kids im never becoming a mother lol, and if i had a kid i wouldn't want them to be a mamas boy, those r js weird, id raise him to be a normal boy.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Let's see what the future holds

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr know what it holds

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yeah Sure

[chocolatetwopointo]

i do. im not stupid like most teenagers. i know what i wanna do with my life

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yeah right

[davidshaw]

@chocolatetwopointo "I'm not stupid like most teenagers" hahahaha 😂 yes you certainly are, with your terrible grammar, black and white opinions, arrogant unchecked bravado, and acts like a young child... You certainly are a comedian though, for making such a hilariously false statement! 😂

[chocolatetwopointo]

”terrible grammar” and its js shortcuts💀 how old r u?

[davidshaw]

No shit they're shortcuts? Still makes it look ironic, when you're trying so hard to look so intelligent. You can see my age on my profile...

[chocolatetwopointo]

then maybe learn them? im not writing an essay.

[davidshaw]

You don't get the point as per usual... I do get what you're saying, just that it makes you look uneducated, when you claim otherwise. It's hardly an essay to write 2 or 3 words in full 😂 no wonder Gen A is so screwed...

[chocolatetwopointo]

a yes so bc i use shortcuts i can't be smart. basic millenial. go work or smth.

[davidshaw]

'Basic millennial' ahahaha, at least I'm not an illiterate mong who only knows an iPad, like Gen A. I have a full-time job, you likely don't have a job and still in school

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah cuz i have a thing called a life. why work when my parents pay for everything lmao

[davidshaw]

"yeah cuz i have a thing called a life"
you're not demonstrating that, when you spend more time posting inane replies.

"why work when my parents pay for everything lmao"
fair, but then don't pretend you're in a position to know jack shit about real life XD

[chocolatetwopointo]

so tell me about ”real life”💀

[davidshaw]

Not constantly posting inane shit on girlsaskguys, or meaningless comments for one

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao, i got free time now that schools over

[davidshaw]

Do something else with your time then, instead of annoying others... 🙄

[chocolatetwopointo]

nahh its fun

[Jeff51]

I didn't before but now guess so

[Sammygirl9287]

Less mature or mommy issues

[xyzguy1296]

Do not you need?

[chocolatetwopointo]

why would i?