Girls: what do you think of the strong silent type guy?

[Anonymous]

Just curious. This is pretty much how I am. I'm an introvert at heart and don't talk much, mainly because I don't have much to say, that's just me. But once I get to know someone, I really open up and talk much more. In addition, I'm pretty social and love being around friends, I just am not as talkative as many people.

Many people I find mistake me for being weak because I'm quiet, as well as being kind of skinny with a casual, laid back demeanor. But this is not the case. I stand up for what I believe in and always try to do the right thing.

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Let me say that I approach people and talk, just I'm kind of quiet at first, but once I get to know people I open up. But I do make that initial effort to approach and talk to someone.

[notluckywithlove]

I think that's actually the best kind of guy. You're not extreamly loud and trying to make the conversations about you, but you still have a strong opinion that can be heard, along with others. I've always found your type kinda mysterious as well, in a good way, like you'd be extreamly interesting to talk to, because you can't help but wonder what they're going to have to say/be thinking. With laid back guys I think also comes this assurance for girls that you're just looking to be you, and nothing has to go too fast, but at the same time you won't move too slow. Where some may see it as someone who's weaker and doesn't know how to stand up for themselves, I've found you guys tend to be the stronger links and the one's worth knowing in the end, as well as coming off much more experienced then others =D.

[MILWJ]

Very nice answer!

And I would pick the strong silent type over the strong loud type any day :) You have a lot going for you!

[notluckywithlove]

Awz thank you..you're too sweet =)

[elements]

There's this guy in my Intro to Criminology class who is exactly like you. It makes him seem more interesting than those in class who are what my class calls "talkers", lol. Leaving more to be discovered makes you seem more interesting, at least at first glance.

[Asker]

Yeah like in my history class, I bring up interesting things relevant to the topic at hand (i.e. occupy wall street), but don't try to dominate the conversation.

[heartchu564]

I think they are usually the sweetest guys. Becuase you are strong, I would always feel safe around you, and usually the quieter guys are the sweetest. So it's basically a win win situation

[Anonymous]

I don't mind if a guy is quiet. It's not like a deal breaker or anything. I'm not the super friendly girl either, I take my time b4 I warm up 2 someone I just met. Once you get 2 know me, I'm pretty out there. (in a good way)