How Do I Know If Whether A Woman Is Happy With Me… or Just What I Provide?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

this is a reboot of the last question I asked that so many people misinterpret.

So I did NoFap for 3 weeks now and it finally shifted how I see sex. now I don’t just want to bust a nut anymore, I actually want to bond with a woman and make sure she’s just as happy with me as I am with her.

But here’s what I struggle with— as a man I am more than happy just having access to sex. ye we’re obviously wired that simple. women on the other hand always seem to only give sex to men who solves all their problems or gives them bragging rights.

So my question is: how can you actually tell if a woman is truly happy being with you, and not just happy with what she thinks she can get from you?

Updates

9 mo

wow ain't this priceless. I think I'm gonna leave this here, this is worth the attention and entertainment

https://imgur.com/3BOa6KQ.jpeg

I just asked this question and already triggered someone so bad that they had to come in here to just insult me and tell me they've blocked me like if I or anybody else on this site cares about what they do with their meaningless life 😂😂😂😂😂

[Vevv123]

You will know when you stop bragging about whatever problems you can solve for them. Being humble is the best way to make sure it’s a genuine connection.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

Interesting take. Funny thing is, I wasn’t bragging at all—I was asking how to spot genuine vs. transactional connection. But thanks for your perspective

[Vevv123]

Take it as an example. You spot it when you don’t provide those things you’re saying. They will walk away on their own without you having to do anything.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

That’d be great if it always worked that way. But in reality, a lot of women don’t just walk away quietly when it’s not genuine—they hang around until they’ve gotten what they want, and only then leave. That’s why I asked the question—because spotting it before damage is done matters a lot to me

[Vevv123]

You can’t spot it unless you spend a lot of time listening to what they say and what they value and you invest time in them by talking with them. I think there’s a lot of women that value something genuine. You will usually notice someone superficial.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I see what you’re saying, but in my experience, women’s words and actions don’t always line up. That’s why I pay more attention to what they actually do rather than what they say. Actions usually tell the real story.

[Vevv123]

I give up

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's shown in the effort she puts to make you feel happy (not always but more often then not) plus you will feel valued and respected consistently.

[oldpigg]

I really don't know, but I'm glad to know that I'm spared those problems since I'm not interested in spending time with women.

[In_Trance]

Ask her

[Filthy_Immigrant]

women never mean what they say or say what they mean

oldest code in the tablet of reality

[In_Trance]

Then why bother communicating at all

[Filthy_Immigrant]

isn't that what we humans were program to do?

[In_Trance]

Then why tf would you second guess everything? Smh

[Filthy_Immigrant]

ever heard of ulterior motives?

[In_Trance]

You are exactly the reason why there's communication issues amongst people

[Filthy_Immigrant]

Blaming me doesn’t erase the contradictions in what you said, but fair enough

[In_Trance]

Whatever makes you feel better.
You asked a question and I answered.
Just because you don't perceive things as simple and turn them into something that they're not doesn't make you right.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

If dating and relationships were really that simple, the world wouldn’t be full of people struggling with them. That’s why I dig deeper than surface-level answers