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What is the point of being in a relationship with a woman if you (men) check other females out, flirt and things that your not supposed to do when you say you love your woman and stay with her?
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You will not see real things within 3 months, you see more things in long term relationships, so yeah it’s men whose I dated over a year.
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That were not supposed to do? Right! Amazing how a lot of women always dictate what men are supposed to do. Can you guarantee 100% that women don’t check out other men? In my opinion women are supposed to be home taking care of the house, cleaning, taking care of the kids and making sure there’s a home cooked meal on the table when I get home from my 12 hour shift. Do you agree? I mean cause if you’re going to dictate what men are supposed to do then I assume I can do the same. It’s crazy how women automatically assume that when men don’t think or act as they do then we’re the ones who are wrong. I didn’t realize women were given that decision to decide collectively as a whole men are the ones who are always wrong. Let me guess you’re probably single, been w a man who was checking out other women. Probably even left you for another woman.
This post wasn’t your invitation to gripe about women, she isn’t making a comparison or discussing women whatsoever. She’s asking men, for their male perspective on their own behaviors. You didn’t answer her question whatsoever.
A woman does not control him, he does whatever he wants to do but it means two people in a relationship know and should have the boundaries set. Until a woman having to find out he does stuff behind her back. You expect her to do everything at home for you knowing you’re a hard working man out there but why can you not do the same if she is doing everything for you plus she works too? In return, you say you are tired from work, not helping yet having time to check out other females, flirting and etc? Tell me how it makes sense for men? How is it okay?
@HollyK21 so what you’re saying is hold men response but not women? Ok. Got it. she's actually making a comparison cause she’s accusing a lot of men of not keeping their eyes on their girl. She could have said why are there so many people who have wondering eyes when they’re in a relationship. But she said men specifically. So how do you not expect men to call women out for the same thing?
No she actually doesn’t work. She hasn’t since our 3rd year together. But you act as if it’s just men who do this when you know it’s not true.
Yeah well from a female who is into men/ based on her experience with men.. EVERY MAN IS THE SAME
Yes cause you’ve dated every man on this planet lol ever think that maybe it’s you considering you probably meet men who are all the same? Women have a hard time admitting it’s them.
Because she’s asking MEN and THEIR OWN behavior. If she wanted to know why men and women do this or that then she would’ve asked that specifically. If you really have such trouble speaking on one gender without tearing down the other then you should’ve either scrolled on or created your own question opening the platform to discussions about why both genders do this or that.
***about their own behavior
If a question were to ask me “why do so many women date older men”, would that be an invitation for me to ask “well, why do older men seek younger women? What’s wrong with women their own age?”. No. There was one topic for me to address.
@HollyK21 well women tend to do that a lot by saying the exact same thing you’re accusing me of. But like I said when tend to lack accountability. Maybe she’s the reason why men she dates look at other women.
Do you see Barry’s response? Just answering the question at hand without all that extra nonsense you’re on about. He understood the assignment, you didn’t.
@HollyK21 I don’t need to read Barry’s response. I’m not Barry. I have a mind of my own. Amazingly I can think on my own too.
“Because guys have eyes and can appreciate beauty in the world. Doesn’t mean he has to act on those feelings. “
You can read his perfect example of simply answering the question given. Not live in his skin.
@HollyK21 lol again I don’t need to read his point. Just because he gave an answer that you like doesn’t mean he’s right. Women always want men to answer questions but don’t like when men actually answer how they think or feel. You only go along w what appeases you.
It looks like you are the problem lol. Not all men in this world if you think I am applying to, but I speak from my experience and what I’ve been seeing from other people in my life so I ask this question to understand why men behave this way.
No I don’t have a problem. I answered your question but you don’t like the answer like most women. You want an answer that fits your narrative. Again your experience is probably because of you. But it couldn’t be right? Cause you’re perfect. It’s all the men you date.
You did not even answer my question. I don’t care to like it or not, but you definitely are not on the point. You are responding by how women are not seeing eye to eye with men. You mentioned how women are not taking accountability and think she’s always right, but what if this woman has been taking accountability whenever you bring up issues BUT you still do whatever you want not setting up boundaries in a relationship when you KNOW you may do something wrong but do it anyways and it’d hurt her? Why stay? That’s my point.
Ok then leave. If he’s still doing whatever you’re saying he’’s doing then move on. How hard is that? It’s not. Women wonder why men keep scumbag men like this keep doing what they do. Maybe because you keep taking them back. Obviously you’re not respecting your own boundaries. If you did you’d leave.
Because guys have eyes and can appreciate beauty in the world. Doesn’t mean he has to act on those feelings.
How many men have said they love you?
See, this is a great response! I hope the anon guy sees this because this is what I’m talking about, answering the question given.
Yes it’s a good response, but what about some other men who actually act on it?
As you mentioned every relationship people have boundaries that will be tested and communicated. If there is a pattern of misbehavior there will be consequences. Ultimately if the partner can’t respect the boundaries that breaks the relationship.
I did ask how many men have said they love you as you mentioned that in your question. Did you want to share that answer?
Almost every of them. . They even said they saw me in their future
Unfortunately people have learned to love bomb. It’s a tactic to try and manipulate. So I was curious if you meant men who proclaimed their love within 3 months of meeting you or you are asking about men you have dated over a year?
Women do this too, alrhough men maybe it more. It isn't a gender specific thing.