Why do Single men keep tabs on women they Are Not attracted to?

[Anonymous]

A guy has been checking me out for years. I went Through his followings on Instagram and he only follows very very Tall, skinny blonde Girls.

I am the exact opposite of his type, so Why does he keep checking me out? I used to have a crush on him but that was years ago and he found out about it. Does he only Want My attention to Inflate his ego? His Stares Start to annoy me.

[MaSult]

I can't tell you for sure, but don't be fooled by what women he likes. Some men have outwardly the impression that they prefer only a certain type of woman but inwardly they want something completely different. Has partly something to do with society, sometimes friends or he himself is insecure. I was always very insecure and could never imagine that someone would say to me "I would like to meet him or something like that". Outwardly, of course, I have not shown that. If you are still interested in him, try it and write him. What happens in the worst case? He says no and you have certainty

[strraku]

There can be multiple possibilites

He might want you to be a side girl, who is always available when to sleep with when he has no girl or having fight with her girlfriend


Or he is trying to check if he can also like those girls who are exact opposite of what he is attracted to

or he may be really likes you

[Asker]

He is Single

[strraku]

then other two could be possible

[Summeroflove]

Maybe he is into you or just being nosy

[Asker]

He can't be Into me Since in Not pretty or cool in his eyes

[Summeroflove]

You don’t know how he sees you. But I assume you ain’t into him. I don’t know.

Some people are also just nosy as well…. Honestly. Just seeing what people are up to

[Vikkrram]

How he found out that you have crush on him?