Girls, in your opinion, what makes a woman deserving of the confident type of man she desires?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

She exists. I mean why does someone 'have to be' deserving or to prove something in order to have that in their lives? If a guy is confident and attracted to a woman, and has that in his skill set, then the better for the both of them. No one owes anyone anything.

[Asker]

If it were really as simple as just ‘existing,’ then shy, average, or broke men would have women lining up for them. But men don’t get chosen just for existing — they’re expected to prove themselves with confidence, status, looks, money, or charm before most women even notice them. Women may believe no one owes anyone anything, but in practice, men are constantly required to be ‘deserving,’ while women can expect attention just for showing up. That’s the delusion, Pretending the playing field is equal when it’s not.

[Nikki1989]

Don't say that. It implies that a person's worthiness is conditional, based on what they do, who they are, or what they have.

[Asker]

Well that's exactly what it is for Men wether you like it or not.