Girls, What makes a woman feel she’s worthy of a good guy who’s confident and at least reasonably successful?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

You can't force someone to love you. And I know that's not how you organized this question, but it is still how it comes across.
You only need one good woman. If she was easy to find, you would appreciate her less. As she would you.

[Asker]

I agree you can’t force love, but that’s not what I asked. The question was about why some women feel they deserve a confident, successful guy. Avoiding that doesn’t explain why so many believe they do.

[Nikki1989]

When she is confident and at least reasonably successful herself usually, but we should all seek the best. However, being successful has very little to do with money, which is probably what you are obsessing over.

[Asker]

If success isn’t about money, then what is it exactly? Men are constantly judged by their ability to provide, so it doesn’t make sense to dismiss that standard for women if they expect a confident, successful man.

[Anonymous]

Self-confidence.

[Asker]

Is that it? Just confidence makes her worthy? That seems unrealistic, confidence alone doesn’t guarantee qualities like effort, kindness, or compatibility. Otherwise anyone loud enough could claim they deserve the best guy.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a start.